older dudes..younger girls

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Peace Attack, Jan 20, 2008.

  1. Peace Attack

    Peace Attack Make War

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    im involved with a older guy..he's 26 and im 18, i dont have a problem with it and i dont think its weird. but im curious as to what other people might think about it.
     
  2. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    thats not os weird. what IS weird is the 62 yr old dude hittng me today. yea.
     
  3. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    Love is love, Life is life, I don't think at all.
     
  4. jerry420

    jerry420 Doctor of everything Lifetime Supporter

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    i can dig on 1 or 2 years younger but...ive tried the dating an 18 year old and 20 year old game...i guess its not for me...differant ages have differant priorities it seems...
     
  5. lode

    lode Banned

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    pft. That's not even enough of a difference to bat an eye.

    When a girl hit's 16 shes fair game for me.

    I wouldn't though. I tend to like girls older, with more depth. But I don't even see anything wrong with your relationship.
     
  6. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    I love older men. They are just like younger men but with better toys, better credit, sexy gray speckled hair, less of a temper and don't ask for head, but love it when they get it.
    Why date a twenty-something who doesn't know what he wants when you candate a 30 or 40 something with his shit together and play with his toys?
     
  7. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    Eh maybe sometimes just sometimes a girl can fall for a 20 year old? maybe it isn't always about fringe benefits?
     
  8. Ms.Oh!

    Ms.Oh! Senior Member

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    ive never slept with a guy under the age of 18... and i lost my virginity at 13.

    my current love interest is considerably older than me. my parents are 30 years apart in age and have been married 25 years now.

    love knows no boundaries
     
  9. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    i've been going for the older ladies

    so i don't think your situation is all that different at all
     
  10. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    age is just a number.. it doesn't matter, seriously. it's all in the head. I know really mature guys my age just like really immature guys 30+
     
  11. the grobe

    the grobe Senior Member

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    when i was 19, way back in the day, ahaha, i was hooking up with this girl who was i think she said 35, ahaha christ i find that very funny, im a gold digger ahaha, even though she wasnt rich and didnt have any health problems and probably would out live me anyways haha
     
  12. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    20-somethings can't handle me. I am complicated and will do nothing but complicate their lives. Older men have a stronger desire to take care of whom they are with.
     
  13. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    Maybe i am just a protective twenty year old but i also like to look after who ever i am with, not saying that 20 year olds are the right package for you but that you seem to stereo type quite a bit as Penny said, some twenty year olds have their shit together and some 30 year olds are immature as all hell.
     
  14. bandbeyondescription

    bandbeyondescription Nothertimesforgottenspace

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    Well said i agree
     
  15. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    I agree I was with someone who was 30 I think at the time and he was the most immature man I have ever met. Had no idea what he wanted in life.

    But, I have never been with a 20-something who was caring and protective and mellowed me out. I just seemed to always darken their lives.

     
  16. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    Yeah thats cool, i wasnt criticizing your preferences, it is good you know what you want and what works for you.
     
  17. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    It's good to know you're not a typical 20-something year-old guy :)
     
  18. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    i hav eno troubles with relationships of old/young people, EXCEPT when the old person turns into a parent: possessive, motherly/fatherly, jealous in that mm/dad way, and refuses to allow the younger partner friends. also, i cannot abide people having sex talk with parent/child overtones. like erzebet/willow jon and muddpuddle. i mean, ew. seriously, pick on someone your own age.
     
  19. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    That can happen even between people of the same age.
     
  20. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    i don't like that, either. i hate seeing one person being treated like a child by someone else. it's still fucking gross to me.
     
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