i've been crazy about this girl for three years now. i never knew how she felt. a few nights ago we hung out, and she was hugging me more than ever, seeminly looking for excuses to touch me. then i sat down on a bench and she used me as a pillow. this is unlike her, and its likely that shes trying to tell me something. but on the other hand.... i do not understand girls. i used to think i did, that i could tell when one was into me and one wasnt, but last year my concepts were shattered. listen to this story. so this girl im friends with starts sending me these really kinky text messages on my phone, and i go along with it, thinking them to be genuine. we met up later that night, and she was all over me. not kissing or anything, but you know. later on, we were in someones room and she was laying next to me on the bed, arm around me, massaging my ribs, under the shirt. when everyone else left the room, i took the initiative, and said very awkwardly, "i dont want a relationship". she was dumbfounded. at a loss for words. she had no clue what i was talking about. apparently, she was thinking of me as a friend the whole time and was just being friendly. there was a very awkward period that followed that, but we eventually managed tolaugh it off. from this experience, i will NEVER believe a girl likes me unless she actually tells me it outright. it was traumatizing. so back to the first girl. i cant let this opportunity pass up. she might loose interest, or she might hook up with someone else. i have this awful fear that she might hook up with one of my friends, which would be catastrophic. if that happened, i would never be able to look at either of them again. it wouldnt be their fault, but i would be so hurt by such a thing that dont want to think about it. and she would find out that i liked her anyway, by my extreme reaction to her dating my friend. so i might as well tell her. im just not quite sure how to go about it. wish me luck!
What did you expect her to reply when you said that you weren't into a relationship. Even if she was she would lie that she wasn't!
You don't need to understand her. Just fuck the bitch. And as for the other broad... You should've fucked her too. Don't bullshit around with all that "I want/don't want a relationship" crap.
" i dont want a relationship" who the hell says that in the middle of what was goin on there?!?!? dude, u your right, u dont understand girls lol
aw, i think it's nice that you told her you didn't want a relationship instead of taking advantage of her, but perhaps you could have a few nighters. Go for the one you like, fuck around with the one you don't really want to be with beforehand, perhaps, though her understanding you're only bed buddies for a bit would obviously make the situation easier than if you just fucked her.
