Getting the head of the cock in the ass without pain is the basic warm up. Light teasing, probing a little more each time works best. A twist of the wrist screws the dildo right in. Once the gate is opened,I'm able to take whatever she can throw at me. I will always warm up if I knew what was going to happen. Do you jump into it, or take it one step at a time.?
As long as it's lubed, I put it right in. Typically go about 6-7 inches deep right away without really slowing down, then go to town as I jerk myself
Lube up, tease my hole for that awesome pop thru feeling to cum before working down to the balls 8-10" away, depending on the toy.
I agree, I enjoy the gentle teasing of the head in and out of my ass for a while before slowly going a little deeper until all 8-10" is balls deep inside me.
Befoe we do it, I will always warm up while showering before we do it. cleaning out and then a finger or two, to relax my asshole for accepting her dildo. I want to be ready, willing and able to take whatever she is offering. One of her favorite things is watching the head pop in and out of my asshole then sliding it in deep and repeat