hey, ok this is how I feel about men and women, what do you think I am, orientation wise? sometimes I am attracted to mens facessometimes I am attracted to mens characters, psyche, but only really when its a man in a film.But thats about it, I'm hardly ever attracted to their bodies and I dont want to be with a man at all. Most men in real life I don't like in anyway, they just bug me. To me, there are two types of sexual attraction, mental and physical, I am only really attracted to men in a mental way, if that makes sense. But with women it is both, I am attracted to womens bodies, their characters, and psyches, i want to be with a women, it seems so much more exciting, Just typing this thread for the hell of it really, its a free speach site so why not just put this out there. thanks to anyone who replys, please don't think I'm so stupid I don't even know what I am, I just need some outside views, and please please please don't say that I'm too young to really know my own mind, and all that stuff, its just insulting. Blessingsxxx
You're not being stupid, well I don't think so anyway. I am kind of the same with the faces. Sometimes I find a long haired man's face more attractive than a woman's face. I don't know if I actually find it more attractive or if I'm just so used to looking at men cos of not realising I was gay for ages. You could be gay, or bi. I describe myself as either, depending what mood I'm in. Does it really matter? PS I totally agree with all that 'you're too young' stuff. I know some people are confused and have gay crushes then turn out straight or whatever, but... please.
I came out as a lesbian at the end of last year. I was actually going to post a similar thread, and I may still do it. But I find girly-looking men attractive. Not attractive as in I'm attracted to them, but I think they can be quite pretty. If that makes sense. And sometimes I wonder about this, but I doubt it changes my lesbian status, because I can envision relationships with women, which I can't do with men.
uh thanks so much for sharing that with me, really helps to know im not alone in feeling this. sometimes i will think, i am definatly a lesbian, and sometimes i will think oh for fucks sake, now i find that guy "attractive" and i will have to re-think everything again. truth is, i want to be gay, so sometimes i think, are these fake feelings for women? just because i want to be gay? or am i actually gay? this is so weird, ive been like this for over a year now, its getting to me, i want to realize i only like women, i dont know why, i just do, i dont expect anyone to understand, coz i sure as hell dont. thing is, i adore watching lesbian movies (as in imagine me and you, the l word, but im a cheerleader, wasnt talking about porn ), books, i check out women and i love it, but every now and then a feeling towards a man will appear, i will like his face, or just him, or just the person inside. but women, uh women, are damn sexy, their bodies, their faces, the amazing person inside, i want to be with a woman, not a man, i want to feel a woman, not a man. odd question, but any lesbians reading this who fully understand their sexuality, how do you feel about men? when you see a "good looking man" what do you see? how do you feel? anyone who has just read this insane rant, thanks for your time any help, as you can see, would be greatly appreciated please dont judge too harshly! thank you again Plaidbasser xxxxxx
sorry to but in, but to a gay woman men are nasty? is that it or are you just not attracted... it would seem kind of weird to hate feel disgusted by someone, if thats what it is.
"sorry to but in, but to a gay woman men are nasty? is that it or are you just not attracted... it would seem kind of weird to hate feel disgusted by someone, if thats what it is." My opinion or at least how i feel is that men are just there. Your not atracted to guys and do you find them nasty?
i sometimes find men nasty, as in not a nice person, and yh sometimes i think their bodies can be nasty.
