Hey guys and girls =) I was just wondering how you women get off to oral stimulation, because I've never been able to, even though I'm DYING to. I don't have trouble having and orgasm during sex, but I find it weird that I can't why my guy's down there. Any suggestions?
maybe he isn't doing it long enough for you? or the right techniques? do you get off w/clit stimulation when you're alone? maybe you could show him how you do it and maybe he'll be more in tune with what makes you feel good! the only times i didn't get off w/oral was when the dude didn't spend much time with it
my girl has the same problem, but i have found if i spend alot of time and do alot of different things, and she tells me wat is really working for he, everynow and then she will cum. which really gets me off!
Got a good story here. Let's go back, back,back...(cue sounds of gently played harps) This is what turned me into a clitoris junkie. I love sucking on the girl spot. Had a similar problem with a woman I dated years and years ago. Fucking, playing, hours of foreplay to where my balls hurt so bad fucking was out of the question - NOTHING WORKED! I'd get a little "Hmmmm" or "Ugh" from her when I'd pump her real fast, but nowhere near the top of the mountain. After a few months of that shit, a fuck with her was only worth me getting off. Believe me, I was frustrated and it did, in fact, put stress on the relationship. I contemplated getting rid of her based on that very reason. Shallow, yes. But if it's not working then it's not working - orgasm or otherwise. So, after finally breaking her down to allow me oral access to her outstanding vagina - she did have a very slick and tight one; thick black beautiful muff to boot - I headed down there and sucked her clit with such force that my mouth hurt real bad from all the effort. Put my index finger in there to find her sweet spot inside and BOOM! She came so hard she ended up pissing all over my chin. YUCK! After that, though, just after a few minutes of kissing, she would always hint - never told me to; she was quite prudey - for me to head down there and start sucking. Each subsequent oral venture required less work and quicker orgasms. Thankfully she was wise enough to take a leak after that initial trial adventure to avoid pissing on me again! Rumor mill says her husband has never been able to get her off. And yes, she still emails and calls me. I wonder why. I'll be damned if I help him with any hints! Wonder why she hasn't instructed him how to do it either. Oh well. Like I said, she was kind of a prude. Probably that combined with him supposedly being a douche bag. Ok, I'm wandering off track here. Try to get a really hard clit suck with just one finger inside. See if that helps. If so, report back. I want to know if my wisdom (conceitedness) will bear any results.
I was never able to enjoy myself fully with anyone but my husband. It took finding someone I was 100% comfortable and relaxed with to be able to have an orgasm from oral stimulation. It is not that I did not enjoy what others had done, I just was too nervous and uptight that I could not relax and enjoy. Even now if I am too stressed or my mind is wandering I can't enjoy. So my advice is to relax, let everything else in your mind go away and just breath deep and go with it.
My girlfriend lasts different times. However, on average I would say it is "medium" length. Just, learn what she likes, and GO WITH IT, don't keep changing it up, unless you absolutely knows that she likes it.
sometimes can't reach orgasm during oral it's just becaus you've got less nerve endings on the tip of your vagina compare to the nerve endings on the lining inside of your vagina.
