Oral sex = Virginity?

So this is a simple question to everyone

 

I say yes because it involves crossing a moral threshold and losing innocence to sexual interaction. The word 'virginity' means very little since the physical changes involved in 'losing it' (for girls) can be achieved without any sexual interaction at all - and for guys there is no physical change.

 

Thats what the poll is for i feel the same way

 

I say no. Losing virginity is having sexual intercourse with your partner, in my opinion.

 

What about lesbians?

 

HA, they have it good I think.

As long as they don't use strap ons, they can live on as virgins forever.

 

Yeah. That's BS. Oral sex ain't losing your virginity.

 

Well considering it sounds like you havent had either oral sex or sex....what would you know on the matter?

 

You loose your virginity when you feel you have lost your virginity. This is not Elizabethan England where you will be checked by a priest or a landholder before marriage, for pete's sake. Simply: when you feel experienced!

 

Exactly, it's whatever you want it to be dude!

 

that is true except you technically might not know if the other virgin you were with at the time thinks the same way...

 

I agree... my hymen was broken by a tampon long before I had any sexual experience... but that being said.. I personally feel that I lost my "virginity" when I had intercource for the first time... but thats just my opinion...

 

Well, it's only really your own opinion that matters i think, when it comes to this. Someone else might think you were a slut even if you weren't, for example. Sluts don't exist in my opinion, they are just people unchained by social hypocrisy.

 

how do lesbians lose their virginity in your opinion? because strap on's are not real dicks lol

 

I feel the same way dont get me wrong haha i'm just seeing what other people have to say about it...

 

As a bisexual woman.. I would say that it would be the first sexual experience together... be it with a strap-on or not...every situation is different...i slept with a man before i knew for sure that i was bi so i count that as my moment of "becoming a woman"... if it had been with another woman i would have counted our first intimate moment together...like i said its subjective.. and everyones opinions are different...

 

You must be joking.

 

actually i'm not, you sound quite pure to me

 

What a great forum topic and discussion. Yea! Hip Forums.

 

If this virgin would stay on topic it would be a fine topic lol because people have conflicting feelings about it