Orgasms Just Don't Seem To Happen!

Well where do i start.
i have been with my boyfriend 6 months now and we have a healthy sex life.
but i can't seem to orgasm at all! and it makes me and him extremely frustrated. He is real good in bed by far the best i have had but i just can't seem to climax.
i get extremely close but then it goes away having to start right back from the start again.
its not just him i haven't been able to orgasm with its been every guy. No guy EVER has make me cum =[
i can easily do it myself and make myself cum in like less than 5mins
any advice would be appreciated

 

Foreplay first? I know it's obvious, but maybe that might help.

 

i can orgasm through masturbation extremely quickly just not through sex =/

 

What technique do you use when you masturbate? If you need to stimulate your clit to orgasm then it is unlikely you will during actual sex unless you are extremely turned on from foreplay or one of you continues the clitoral stimulation. 70 percent of women can't climax from thrusting alone.

 

If I didn't get a woman off during sex, I would have no problem with holding her & kissing her & playing with her tits while she masturbated...it would probably make me hard again.

 

i do stimulate my clit do you think i shall should stop completely
do you think that will make me be able to?

 

That really sucks. Don't know what to tell you.

Does he eat your pussy? Some girls just don't cum from penetration. Other than that I don't know, give my condolences to your vagina.

 

Oh, were you raised catholic or some other form of orthodox religion? Guilt can fuck up a girls orgasms... it doesn't as often as it should but it can. lol

 

nah im not a catholic xD and yes he does lick me out but not for long enough =/
i think maybe i should stop masturbating that might help

 

Try Masturbating while he is fucking you. Ceasing to masturbate will probably cause you to become a sexually frusterated uptight bitch.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

dont think theres something wrong with you ive heard alot of girls say they cant orgasm during sex it is very common alot of girls only cum in bed with a guy if he is giving oral

 

Please don't despair if at first don't succeed in attempting orgasm.

Most women I believe don't achieve it for whatever reason.

Maybe they're anxious, maybe they're tired, maybe they cannot relax.

Please don't beat yourself up over not achieving something that I think is really very hard to achieve.

In my life its only ever been on four different occasions, and of those occasions only one was really powerful orgasm that really made me think - OMG !!!

The big orgasm came from I think after 7 hours of very prolonged foreplay, I doubt wether any guy is going to be bothered doing that, or even a girl for that matter.

Summary of what I think works:

Lights out (most women are inhibited whilst the lights are on). moon light is fine.

Room temperature does not appear to make any difference, infact a cold room is when she had this great orgasm.

Prolonged foreplay (very long prolonged foreplay) with your hands caressing the female body for a very long time.

When I say caressing I mean your hands have to be incredibly gentle and flowing across a womens entire body, not just the errongenous zones.

The truth is the entire body has billions of skin cells that are aroused by your touch.

Slow and gentle kissing, avoid genitals as much as possible initially.

Never enter a female if she is not vaginally wet natures way of saying its not ready yet.

The basic idea is to tease her to orgasm the more she wants it the more you tease her ...

So this goes on for hours on end when your arms are aching change sides and use your other arm (guys).

This caressing relaxes a female and proves your love of her because your really thinking of her needs not yours.

The worst part about getting a women off is your balls will be aching after the hours of foreplay.

Persistence and patience pays off big time.

A women will know when she is at the threshhold of orgasm its then that you enter her and not before if you want to experience the ultimate in sexual pleasure.

Orgasm is not just an incredible experience for a girl, its an incredible experince for the guy.

Believe me when I say that orgasm is the most incredible experience of your life.

Those that are prepared to put the time in and are prepared to be patient will be in for and experience like no other.

Enjoy.

 

Do you mean stop stimulating or stop masturbating? I'd say no to both. If that is what it takes to cum then you should continue to do it especially during sex. Maybe you need more lube or try using a small vibrator on your clit during sex.

 

You've been with a guy you think is hot enough, but you've never been with a guy your body thinks is hot enough.


Yes, it is that simple

 

A lot of women are like this.

I, personally never had an orgasm from sex. I came close but never fully happened. Only from stimulation (oral) which I havent had in a while.

Figure out techniques that can make you orgasm. Stimulate yourself. I like when the guy rubs his stomach on my clit during sex. Maybe that'll work for you.

 

i can take u there :coffee:

 

They don't happen, spontaneously. They don't just happen.

 

What the hell did you honestly think the discovery channel was for?

OH YES, SHE'S LOVING IT!!

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xat1GVnl8-k"]YouTube- Bloodhound Gang - The Bad Touch
Peace Out,
Rev j

 

how bout masturbate while he penetrates?!