Out of spite

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by vanilla, Nov 20, 2004.

  1. vanilla

    vanilla Member

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    Out of spite, he sent me a message that made it seem as though it was actually intended for another woman.
    Man! It hurted like hell!
    2 minutes later, he realised that he misunderstood my message and started apologising. He ended the night by sending me another message telling me,

    'Don't feel sad. I didn't realise the impact of it until later, then too late...'

    Ya.. really too late.

    Now everytime he sends kisses through messaging or tells me that he needs me, I wonder whether they are really intended for me.

    Problem is, I don't want to break up.

    Arrrrgh. I hate this!
     
  2. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    Awww babe, were you fighting at the time?
     
  3. vanilla

    vanilla Member

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    no.. but seeing that he is 'always' so busy with so many engagements, it didn't seem likely that we are going to meet again before he goes home for Christmas so I said something about saying 'good bye' properly. Well. he like always, just jumped to conclusions and then sent me a message addressed to another girl saying that he needs her blah blah blah...
     
  4. Catatonic_Void

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  5. vanilla

    vanilla Member

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    Exactly!
     
  6. paix

    paix Senior Member

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    that sounds highly suspicious. Even if he's not seeing another girl, sounds like he plays games, which is just dishonest and not good. men can be awful can't they? :confused:

    All I can say is, honesty is always the best policy. Let him know how it made you feel, and that you feel like you can't trust him now, but you still like him. Maybe even tell him you need some time sort out your feelings. Find that time too. It's so hard when trying to figure out a relationship to have the opinions of other people in your head. Take some time alone to really think about it. Good luck mama, I hope it works out well :)
     
  7. Sebbi

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    Dude never let anyone play games with you. It's just fucked up, hell people don't even always realise they are doing it.

    Just be damn careful with this guy.

    Sebbi
     

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