Paedophilia!

Paedophiles are the absolute lowest form of life, no doubt of that. But paedophilia creates many more problems that people don't realize.
I'm a very helpful person, but recently I noticed a child crying and alone in the street. Obviously he had lost his mother. I was naturally worried, but if you approach a child in the street as an adult male, you will be suspected by others because paedophilia is so common.
I am ashamed to say that I left the traumatised child and walked on by, but at a distance I called the police from my mobie phone (cell phone) and notified them of the situation, then left.
If I had been a female, I would have been able to help out, that there is no doubt about, but as an adult male, there's no way in hell I would go near any child to help him or her, but would call somebody else to help. As an adult male, I am petrified of being suspected as a paedophile, it's my worst nightmare.
Has anyone else encountered this problem? It's yet another reason why I hate paedophiles.

 

dude... even i would be afraid and i am a female. i dunno.... i had an experience where i was talking to a kid that was alone... making sure the boy k new where his parents were, and then the parents came back and kinda looked at me like i was gonna kidnap their child....

 

im a probiscophile ....i like girls with noses .....cool noses like in india and spain n lebanon ....arched bridges and exotic nostrills ......anyway you cant edit your inclination to actualy help people just cause there are some among us who would hurt .......badness and unkindness suck ....but thats no reason to limit your well intended interactions with other humans .

 

asking a kid if he's alright and if he knows where his parents are is not like taking him to some place or offering to driving him somewhere or huggin him.. if u dont do those things u shouldnt be afraid that pple will think u're a paedophile.

im a teacher and im not afraid that pple could think im a perve cuz i help pple out. i dont think i'd be afraid if i was a man either. there are certain things that we dont do, like talk to a kid in a classroom and close the door for example.

i think the more u're afraid of what pple will think, the more u send vibes that u ARE someone pple should be afraid of.

 

there was just a incident,, somwhere in alabama,, a women saw a 3 year old at a conveinance store,, knew somethin wernt right,, she called the cops,, cops blew her off..

took her two weeks of houndin the fuckers,,they went back thru survalaince tapes an wound up bustin the couple for molestin her an like 10 other kids..

its fucked up..

 

Yeah, it's an interesting problem cause without helpful folk in the community, children could be in a lot of danger.
I would have thought females wouldn't have had the same problem. But I guess it all comes down to a trust issue, and with all these dirty, disgusting, paedophiles around, I don't blame the parents being so untrusting.
It's a shame really cause the kids do get lost sometimes and we normal decent folk can't help because of this problem. I am scared to help and just wouldn't incase of getting accused.

 

No way! I have many male friends who think the same as me. We hate paedophilia so much that it would be a nightmare to be accused which is why I would stay away from children in any circumstance.

 

well the fact that each post u make features somethin like "paedophilia is disgusting" makes u sound weird. of course it is, repeating it doesnt make u sound more innocent.

 

I found myself discreetly watching a child that was far too young to be away from her parents walking around our shopping precinct recently. Ironically, the thing most on my mind was how easy it would be for just about anybody to scoop her in their arms and disappear with her, with nobody knowing if they were a parent or not.

The whole thing last 20 minutes, and I too felt powerless to help her even find her parents. But that one single thought was also stopping me from intervening. The way the childs eyes lit up at least told me they all got reunited. And I would like to think I would have spottedanybody else pretending to be her parent...

And yes, I was afraid of what I must have looked like to anybody who noticed me..


It's becoming so bad that people are having to watch how intimate they are with their OWN children..

 

Are you fucking kidding me? How is every post I make about paedophilia you weirdo! This is a genuine problem that I have encountered recently. It's not even a big deal, just a topic of discussion. You obviously don't read my posts because I don't think I've ever mentioned Paedophilia up to now, so think before you accuse anyone you IDIOT!
Btw, your spelling is atrocious for a teacher!

 

hey , i like the way your mind works ....and your correct about not letting negative thingsthat dont apply to you limit the scope of your actions ....what if you had a restaurant and constantly ranted on about people poisoning folks .....it wouldnt be good public relations for your buisness .

 

yeah i mean im sure its worse for a male... but its still an "adult stranger", which is the key phrase really i guess.

 

every post u made on this thread.
and whoa, u're a nice person. dont call me an idiot when the only argument u could make was a comment on my spelling, haha

 

i really haven't had a problem with thinking like that...probably because i do work with kids during the summer.

 

all right kids... one in each cornor.....

 

I'm sorry, but what you said seriously angered me. There was no reason for that personal attack on me, and every post in this thread has been about paedophilia because it's the topic of discussion. If you notice I've made nearly 300 posts, none of which are about paedophilia, (except in this thread). Please think before you insult somebody because what you said was VERY offensive and factually wrong. I'm very respectful and wouldn't dream of saying what you said about me to anyone. I'm sorry I called you an idiot and insulted your spelling.
Btw, I don't know about where you're from, but here paedophilia is a serious and very common problem which is why I have a major problem with it. That's not weird of me.

 

can u quote what i said that was an insult to u? im curious.

 

yar, i'm curious to see what crayola said as an insult....from what i read, i didn't see any....

 

You stated that I was weird, and I don't sound innocent. If you said that to any guy he'd be offended. You also said that every post I make was about paedophilia which is factually wrong. If you read my posts you'd realize that everything I've said is reasonable cosidering the recent problem that I've encountered. I'm offended because I wouldn't dream of insulting anyone I don't know without very good reason.

 

mmm i guess if this is such a touchy subject for u u shouldnt make a topic about it on the internet.. i didnt say u were a paedophile, i said that what u said made u sound weird. what u post in this thread is the only info i have about u, since ive never talked to u before or read your precious 300 posts.
on the other end u called me an idiot and said my spelling was poor. if i freaked out like u did, i'd go "are u implyin im a bad teacher?" do u see me freakin out about that? lol
i guess im sorry i offended u