Hello. I recently had sex with my boyfried( like 12 hours ago) and it was the most painful experience ever...My boyfriend said I didn't relax...and that it was very tight for him...but there was nothing I could do...After some time i asked him to stop...it hurt less ...but it still was extremly uncomfortable. I bled a lot...and the problem is I'm still bleeding...Why is it still bleeding..should't it have stopped? It's not a lot of blood...but it also kind of hurts..or at least I feel uncomfortable...I love my bf very much..but I dread our next time...
Hi alot of girls find their first time to be painful, the bleeding could either be your hymen which is torn (its ment to) or you might have a little cut on you. You may well have relaxed and felt ok with it but the pain may have made you muscles tighten up a bit, if your bleeding quite a bit go and see your doctor or go to your nearest sexual health clinic, if it stops wait until your ready to try again, go slow, use lube and have fun x
Make sure there is plenty pf lubrication on your bf's penis or condom, and in your vagina before he enters you next time. And have one or two drinks or a blow before you do it to relax you. And go to a doctor if the bleeding does not stop or happens again next time. Also, sometimes the size of the man's penis can create problems - lengthwise or girthwise, if your vagina is small or has not been used much.
Well..we tried it again last night...and everything was the same. It was really painful at first and there was blood all over the bed sheets. It hurt less in time...but it was still extremly uncomfortable. And yes, we used lubrication both times. My boyfriend is so great to me and I love the closeness between me and him in these moments. Last night he even made me laugh a couple of times and I know he's doing his best to make me relax, but sometimes..it's like all my muscles get very tense and I can't help it. I know it's my fault and I just feel so guilty when I see him so worried about me:banghead: . Right now I don't understand how can anyone feel any pleasure from sex
It takes time hun, try to meditate before you do it and relax. I know sex hurt for me for about a month of doing it .it would hurt at first but after getting into it it became less painful
