I have been hanging out with a female I met here in San Antonio almost every night for about the last week. We have really kicked it off quite well, enjoy a lot of the same things, having similar living situaitons. I am a little paranoid to ask her out on an actual date, or let her know that I am actually REALLY attracted to her, not because I'm scared or anything, simply because have how long we have been talking... so girls, do you think I should wait it out a bit before I tell her how attracted to her I am, or just do it? I don't want to seem desperate, or needy, because I am really diggin this girl
Maybe just be like, "So what are you thinking about me?" Just be kind of casual about it and see what she says She's probably wondering what you're thinking about her too; girls analyze everything. Just ask her that and then take it from there.
it sounds like you've talked enough that it's an appropriate time to ask her out. i'd be cool with it, anyway. if i were you i'd just come out and say that you've enjoyed the time you had w/her so far and that you'd like to take her out <insert date idea here> and maybe throw out there that you dig her. good luck man eace: also in re: to above post.. we don't all analyze. hopefully she doesn't just be straight up w/her!