Parents to Son Relationship.. Please Read

Hi everyone,

Everything started last night when I was up too late talking on the phone at around 4 AM and my mom was pissed, she took my phone away.. I knew it was coming. I never delete my texts... and sure enough my mom reads them whenever she has the chance. Everythigns on there, everything from my friends telling me there getting wasted tonight to me telling my friend to put the weed in two bags not one, so my mom couldnt smell anything just incase. She made little hints throughout the morning until she had me to the point I couldn't lie about it anymore, and confessed as she was reading off texts to me straight from my phone. She caught me red handed, my loving Mom, who loves me and thinks I was raised up better than to be going around smoking pot. I confessed, she related me to my uncle who is her brother, whos always been in and out of prison due to drug charges and violation of probation, etc. My best friend was who I was sending the texts too.. and I can't hang around him anymore. My dad comes in to see my mom and I crying as she's yelling at me. Dad says everythings chill and just not to do it again.. he confessed to trying weed around my age too. I feel horrible cause I enjoy smoking weed, trust me, but I never thought about anyone but myself, and how I would hurt my parents. I just got my first car too, luckily enough. My mom says she cant trust me anymore.. and I don't know what to do. Please help me..

 

well id be pretty pissed if my mum read my texts, id probably tell her I couldnt trust her either and shes invading my privacy blah blah.

But thats not a good option. Just focus on your schoolwork and be good, you can still smoke, but I would cut back.

 

I'd be extremely pissed off if she'd read my texts.
Slap that bitch and call her a hoe.

 

Don't you know what privacy is? Maybe she doesn't know! That's so lame dude

 

but i doubt that he's the one paying the phone bill...

 

I'm not.. nice sig gaum

 

You definitely have to drop kick her for reading your messages.
That's exactly the same as listening in on your phone conversations.
She can't trust you???? G i v e m e a b r e a k.
Yeah, like the poster said earlier, call her a Hoe.

 

just think wut woud chuck noris do in a time like this?

 

that is really gay that she read your text messages.. i would be pissed about that
its sweet that your dad is cool with it though.
parents understand how kids are.. you're 15, so of course your mom is gonna be upset that her son is doing drugs at this age, but she also gotta understand that you're just a kid and thats what kids do. you should probably try and talk to your mom and tell her you're sorry and you probably aren't planning on doing drugs again. so maybe she can start to trust you a little more, and you'll be able to do things and hang out w/ your best friend again

 

be like your uncle, he sounds cool

 

Chris, kick the bitch in the vag and pour concrete down her throat.

Reading your texts? Man. Your mom is bat shit crazy.

 

pretty much.. digital you're fucking cool with your 4K posts and all, you know its summer, right?

 

respect your mum. she's only looking out for you. try to make it up to her by appearing to be really good and shit. shit will settle down quicker than you think, and you'll be back to normal in no time. shit just takes a couple weeks to fly over..or whatever the saying is.

 

Both of my parents are almost 60 and they've had their hippie experineces. They say it's alright if I smoke pot, just not any bad pot or pot from bad people. They would actually prefer me to grow my own so I know exactly what's in it... Keep it all natural. Although it might sound like my parents are not caring at all, they are very caring. I still get punished for things like drinking, misbehaviour and so on, but they don't care about the pot... I know it's bad with some parents that are anti-marijuana and it like almost hurts them to find out sometimes. I would just say that it's a natural thing and make it seem very nice. Sorry your mom lurks too much about things... Hope it works out for you!

 

Grow a set and quit crying. You did something knowing your parents wouldn't like it and now they caught you. They do have a say in what you do if they take care of you. My parents do nothing for me at all aside from allow me to live in the house, and when my mom smelt weed on me I admitted it and accepted the bitching that I knew would be the cost of my fun. I just told her it was a recreational thing that I do at parties just like alcohol.

 

Heyy man
I see your not getting much advice

so i gired i would help
when y parents caught me the first time
They did the same thing

but its been like 6 months now

and they think i ve stoped
and we're back to normal

just appologise for everything
and wait
it might be a while. but things will get much better

 

I had a big argument w/ my parents awhile ago but it finally worked out alright. PRetty jmuch, you should argue that she reading your texts is the equivalent of you lying to her. Your both being dishonest with each other, you can not trust her just as much as she can't trust you. Then go learn some shit and be able to argue that weed is extremely safe, which it really is. If your parents are reasonable which it sounds they are your parents will probably stop being so suspicous all the time (as it sounds they are)

 

I've pretty much made up my mind that when I'm 16 I'll let my mom know what I've been up to. I know she used to smoke a lot when she was a kid considering she was a child of the 60's/70's. Imo letting your parent or parents know is a much better way to let them figure it out then walking in on you half way through a bowl.