People hate me

I always think people hate me for no reason at all. Is that paranoia?

 

Yes. Most people spend less time thinking about you than yout think.

 

you sound paranoid
i think people have ore things
to worry about.like themselves
so i don't think you should really worry
all that much about it

 

its all a question of mind over matter.

if you dont mind, it dont matter.

 

you must truly love yourself first. you must also love others. you will not be thinking anybody hates you.

 

Dogs don't hate people.............well as long as you feed them regularly.

 

It's paranoia, but man.. I always feel like that, too. Not much you can do about except improve yourself. Not to be condescending but at your age hopefully it's just whore moans anyway.

 

Weird. I was thinking of making a thread bout the same thing when I saw the paranoid room, but decided not to.

 

I THINK YOUR SIGNATURE PIC IS GREAT CRYSTALEYEZ
First time I've spotted it! I have a real love of fairy lore and think it's a wonderful image!

 

...sorry to drift off topic there! little hippy dude, EVERY normal person feels how you do, so, in part, be glad you do, because it's a sign that you're growing and developing naturally. most importantly, an attitude like that can help you remain HUMBLE, and humility is one of the greatest gifts one person can give to another. someone who is convinced everyone thinks he's some kind of brilliant, fantastic genius is the one who really needs to overhaul his self perceptions...



Gawd, I got all preachy there! Apologies

 

I always think people hate me. I'll read body language or tone of voice or some little comment or whatever wrong and assume there is some meaning behind it. I just don't feel very likeable usually even though I know i'm a decent and agreeable (usually) person.

I also have a thing with people thinking I'm disgusting or repulsive in some way.

Yep I think it is paranoia, especially if it's to the point of obsessing about what you think they're thinking about you or having anxiety attacks or it or whatever.

 

Again, Panik, I think these type of feelings are a very normal thing (though, of course, Mr Average perhaps won't have them to the same extreme). It's one of the commonest hang-ups around. I'm not saying that to belittle anyone's problems, I'm just emphasizing that, if you or whoever feel 'different' because of these type of worries, or feel like there's something wrong with you because you feel that way, you're actually not as different as you might think. Plus, being an optimist, I'm tempted to reiterate what I said earlier in the thread; if you can learn to control negative self-feeling like this as you grow, it can give you a natural gift of humility. I know a lot of people who have developed like that, and they are a real joy to be around. As I'm sure you are too.

 

sounds a bit paranoid.

 

Yeah... And the sad thing is... I use any bit of body language, twich or tone of voice(even if thats their natural tone) to justify it.

 

i think you probably need your ass kicked cause your body language is really pissing off my friends. At least thats what she said--
Dude let it go - Find your family and let your light shine- To hell with the weak minds of hate.- Cause there is NO TIME TO HATE

 

that's for damd sure!

everybody may hate everybody a little, but anyone with half a brain has better sense then to hate anyone enough to actualy do anything about it. those that do either end up in jail or screwing up their own lives some other way. those who end up as world class tyrannts are a hand full from among all our billions. and that takes being almost as brilliant as warped, and it takes a lot of being warped.

the bushwacker is just a friggin hand puppet, of rumsfield and rove.

=^^=
.../\...

 

hell yeah. same shit happens to me. I'll feel like one person is mad at me then it turns into a goup of people that i feel are ganging up on me. so then until I find out if they are or arenot I always watch wha a say or do.


weird

 

and that on your 15 years of age ... bravo!

Art Delfo ... if you really want to change your perception of things ... do this shamanic exercise ... say everything that you think is real and has a negative tone - REVERSED! ... "everybody loves me!" ...


don't believe the evil thoughts - they suck

 

I don't think everyone hates me, although I do think everyone WOULD hate me if I didn't hide behind a persona everywhere I go.


Although, I'm more paranoid about people attaching strings to everything. "Sure, we'll listen to you - as long as you agree with A, B, and C ideologies and do X, Y, and Z for us!" This mentality disgusts me so much and I am very wary of it everywhere I go.

 

Maybe people were shitty to him and he is justified in feeling this way.

we need to embrace our feelings and then we can let them go.