Anybody ever shagged someone just because they thought they were doing them a favour?. Years ago a man who I respected and looked up to visited where I was based. A bunch of us were gathered around listening to him with pure adulation soaking in whatever he said when he cornered me alone and came on to me. Now I was a big girl and I should have known better but instead I kind of hesitated just because I didn't want to say no to the man. He'd recently gone through a lot of shit in his life and this was reflected in the sex we had that night which was absolutely horrible. Then there was the fact that I had to keep sneaking around. Anywho I just didn't want to offend the man or hurt his feelings and plus I thought I was doing him a favour. As far as the army was concerned him and me shagging should have been a big no no but somehow a lot of people decided to turn a blind eye.Anywho I thought the whole thing was only going to last a week but then it turned out that he was staying another month and I just thought no fucking way. Anyway I still couldn't bring myself to be a big enought bitch to finish with the guy .So instead I volunteered to do a six week exercise in poland which hit a low of -14. Six weeks of freezing your tits off in poland tends to concentrate your mind and bring out the inner bitch. Anywho sorry for the long post I seem determined to rehash every sexual experience I've ever had on these threads. But I would be interested in other people's experiences. Especially guys would you shag a girl you weren't attracted to just out of kindness.
Yes, I did it, it was the only time in my life that I felt bad about having sex. I was in an online chat room, and this one lady was saying how she got stood up for a date and she hadn't had sex in three years since her divorce. So me, always one to lend a helping hand, (or other body-part), offered to help her out with that. So, I went and kept my word, I think the part that made me feel bad was she wanted me to spend the night, and I just couldn't. She wasn't ugly, just not my type.
But why do you feel bad about it? It sounds like a much more positive experience than the one I described. As for you not spending the night it was probably the right thing to do to draw a line under it and she probably understood that. I don't know if you stayed in contact afterwards but I bet it meant a lot to her.
I am not really sure why I felt bad, I think it may be because she tried very hard to convince me to stay and I didn't. So it may be more of feeling bad about leaving more so than feeling bad about the sex.
Yes, if there are any hot, young, randy girls out there that are feeling a bit sorry for me, by all means drop me a line, I fully approve of Pity Sex!
Rather than making requests put yourself in the scenario of a woman with say a terminal illness that you respect and admire turning around and just straight up asking for sex. Would you do it? would it be something you'd like to do but maybe felt you couldn't ?
If I knew a woman that I liked and respected that had a terminal illness and she asked me to have sex with her, I would definitely do it. Sex is a wonderful thing and for someone who is terminally ill, it might just help make her life easier and more enjoyable so why not? I am sure I would appreciate the same kind of consideration if the situation was reversed.
I don't think there's anything wrong with pity sex ... or mercy sex as we call it. I've done it for men I've known who were going through a down period in their lives or whatever. Sex is a beautiful thing and a way to make a connection to another human being ... why not share it with someone who needs it?
Well I hope you can scratch that itch there my friend. They ought to have a pity sex section on craigslist. Check out adult friend finder dot com. I'd pay the fee to get on there. My wife wouldn't like that though, she's pretty reserved about fuckin' and all.
