Please Help Me, I Dont Know What To Do

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by theusualone17, Aug 23, 2004.

  1. theusualone17

    theusualone17 Member

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    My girlfriend went out on a trip for 2 days with her family and im missin her a lot, i miss her so much that it is killing me inside. Everytime i try to call her it says that her phone is switched off.
    I sometimes think that she is with someone else but im trying to refuse that idea because i dont think she cld b capable to do such thing but who knows?

    i dont wanna loose her, i love her so much n it kills me not to be with her. Wot should i do?
     
  2. meishka

    meishka Grease Munky

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    how long have u been with her? is this a serious relationship and if so, is it your first?
     
  3. Earthy Mama

    Earthy Mama Feel my wrath... ;)

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    Well, honestly... I'd say chill out a little...take a deep breath and try to focus on something to do for yourself or her. I would stop worrying. Your age says 17 so I'm assuming shes 17 too. Therefore she must be with her family. Let her have some alone time and some time to spend with her family. I'm sure by the time she comes home she'll be missing you so much she'll want to be with you right away. :) Its a huge turn-on to a girl when a guy shows his love yet keeps himself in check and can control that jealous what are you doing urge. Spend some time with a friend! Have fun doin guy stuff. If shes on vacation shes probably not cheating. Since you love her she must be a good girl. Trust her and assume the most rational thing... shes with you, shes who you picked so she must be reliable enough to control herself and not cheat!
     
  4. Angel_Headed_Hipster

    Angel_Headed_Hipster Senior Member

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    Yeah...its cool that you love her and stuff, but you also gotta give her some room. It's nice having a GF, but its also nice having room to yourself and being able to do other stuff too...Maybe her going away can turn out to be a good thing, and you can take up something new, or something like that...

    Peace and Love,
    Dan
     
  5. Stalkz

    Stalkz Member

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    God damn, it's two days. Let it go.
     
  6. sugrmag

    sugrmag Uber Nerd

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    If you love this girl, you have to trust her. You said yourself that you don't think she is capable of cheating on you...so give her (and yourself) some credit. She'll be home soon!!
     
  7. drewbee

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    Holy cow dude, its just a vacation shesh. She'll be back in your arms in no time. Make sure you hit it a few times for me.
     
  8. Bacchus

    Bacchus Member

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    Don't be such a parasite. She'll respect you a lot more if you can act like a man about silly little shit.
     
  9. TheStoon

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    Yeah, this is pretty bad, wouldn't like to be her when/if you ever split up - stalker territory?? ;)

    Just kidding - her mobile being switched off means precisely FUCK ALL, maybe she didn't charge it before she went away, maybe her parents got so pissed off with her using it all the time that they made her leave it at home..

    You need to relax, learn to trust, and remember that her life doesn't revolve around you, even if she wants it to - she has commitments to things like family that will always take priority, even if you do stay together for a very long time. For example, my fiancee is going to a family birthday party for a few days, that coincide with an important event for me - but I have to understand that her family will always be priority, sometimes even over me, and it will be the same once we are married.

    Good luck though!
     
  10. Bacchus

    Bacchus Member

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    not far from today, you will be thrilled when your women goes out of town for couple days.
     
  11. yazzi

    yazzi Member

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    dont get carried away. there's prolly an explanation. HOWEVER, let me say this, suspicions always mean something.... never forget, where there is smoke, there is ALWAYS fire.... always dude. but don't let her KNOW u are suspicious. trust me, we're good at lying, better than man wayyyy better so BE SMART! or u will never catch her. (if shes doing ne thing that is, she prolly isnt, but hey im paranoid i smoke too much)
     

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