please help my girl!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by tutex, Oct 22, 2008.

  1. tutex

    tutex Member

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    Long story short we both cleaned up our lives I quit my 1 1/2-2 year long drug addiction (weed,dex,tp's,ect) she quit her few weeks of psyco drinking at her first few weeks at college.-she's pre med and under sooo much stress for just one class she has 250 question tests. she will not shut up about adderal. I see she clearly has way too much work but me comming off an addiction and her obsesion with a drug isint great. When i was telling her about my friend ship status with a guy i have ben great friends with for over a year(he has adderal) in the middle of me talking she said"wait so hes not going to give it to you?!" What do i do? she clearly has too much stress she thinks taking adderal is the only way to do school and keep some what of a life. any help? THANKS
     
  2. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Maybe take her away for a weekend and let her have some time off. She sounds wound up
     
  3. His Eden

    His Eden Queen of Mean

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    Sounds like she needs to depressurize a bit. Congratulations on quitting, and while it would be nice if she was more supportive and didn't mention aderall all the time, it is also a great test for you. Stay off the drugs and help her out if you can. Run her a bath, make her lunch, whatever. Hopefully when you need her support she will return the favor.

    Good luck.
     
  4. OldTroll

    OldTroll Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    You've been given two good pieces of advice Tutex.

    Let's us know how it plays out.




    Have fun, stray clean, and play safely!
     
  5. YoMama

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    Perhaps she needs some medical attention if she is seeking to medicate herself.
     

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