ok i was getting head last night for the first time and i was drinking earlier i had to pee really bad but had no chance to go. she was sucking me up for like 30 mins and i couldnt cum. is this beacuse i had to piss? im a little concerned thanks.
While having to pee should postpone the ability to cum, it should not stop it. It takes about ten minutes for the body to shift from one function to the other. I have used this often to extend the amount of time before cumming when having sex. If you could not cum, it is likely that you were just so distracted by the fact that you had to pee.
Having to pee gives me a boner (have to use PC muscles to hold it in) and is useful for sexual antics. I would assign more weight to it being your first time getting head, you were probably nervous.
It could also have been that you're simply not sufficiently aroused by this sort of stimulation. Just because nearly all the porn videos seem to end with an Oral ejaculation, this is not so in real life. I consider Oral as being fine for foreplay, but there's no way I'm ever likely to get an orgasm from it.
^ likewise. It just doesn't provide the right type of stimulation for me to orgasm, even though the stimulation it does provide is exquisite.
there's no shame in removing yourself for a moment to use the restroom before continuing. kind of like asking your girlfriend to go take a shit before you plug her ass. basically the same thing.
some things to realize, * Head for the first time' could take longer itself. Over time you'll learn how to control how long it takes. * you drank earlier', My wife won't even think of head if i've had more then 2 or 3 beers. She says it takes to long and hurts her neck. Drinking before your first time = "I'd like to meet her for trying" lol * you had to go pee' Once experienced, you should be able to overcome this without no problems. However, if it was beer pee... like everyone who drinks know what i'm talking about beer pee... It's best to let it out before you do anything under the conditions...if you came from the head...you did pretty good...or she did pretty good...
haha well im a girl and i know for me when im gettn ate out or havn sex, if i get the urge to pee there is no way im cummin till i go, for some reason, but so i assume its the same for guys. why didnt you just go and come back and cum? hmm anyways better luck next time
Yes. The urge to urinate will distract you from enjoying the sensation of oral sex. Next time, simply ask her if she'd mind waiting while you went to the rest room. No one will mind.
Here are some other reasons: you secretly don't like him/her, they don't know how to give head, you were scared of getting caught, they kept tagging you with their teeth, they are ugly, you couldn't afford to pay, you were worried your g/f or b/f was going to find out, you get nervous in the Principals' office, sibling rivalry, you hate moustaches/razor burn, you are allergic to baby cows, the people in the next building were taking photos, you have a phobia about being in the drive through at McD's, your dad would kill you if he knew your mom was doing that while he was in prison, old people in wheelchairs disgust you. Could be a million reasons. I used to have a gorgeous little blonde lezzie flatmate who after a lot of drinks would forget about my g/f passed out next to the toilet and be all over my bone like a pitbull on a baby wrapped in bacon. She had a little rough pointy tongue and would just suck and swirl it around and around. 30 seconds, and boom! Dinner is served. She was amazing. I swear she could lick the numbers off a pool ball. Go find that girl son, she is out there somewhere... Or maybe you just wanted to do her/him in the butt...?
