So I was having Sex with my boyfriend and he noticed blood on his condom so we stopped immediately. There was little blood, only 3 small drops. I now have abdominal pain and my testicles are very sensitive. I'm really scared I don't know if this is serious of if it will go away soon someone please help me. I haven't had a bowl movement as it was only about 3 hours ago. Am I going to be okay?
As with Toar, My gut sense is that you will be OK. Blood is not uncommon, the gut lining in there is very thin/sensitive. Exactly the reason to use a condom because it is so easily ripped or torn. Your fear and anxiety may be leading to some of your pain experience. Try to relax. Give yourself some time, a few hours/overnight. Chances are the pain will be gone. If you need to have a bowel movement do so without an excess of strain. My guess is that you are young and inexperienced. It's good that you asked for advice here or somewhere. Do some research about getting prepared for anal sex before you try it again. For a first time virgen young butt you really need to get prepared and take things very easy. You and your boyfriend should get educated together either on line or in person at whatever kind of GLBT support you may have access to. Good luck to you, both of you.
I should add that if you continue to bleed or bleed excessively get to an ER and get examined. A bit of embarassment would be better than an untreated serious injury.
