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Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by D3siRouS, Mar 13, 2012.

  1. D3siRouS

    D3siRouS Guest

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    Who says only guys enjoy watching porns? I'm sure ladies watched it too just that they don't get as much stimulation compare to man. Ladies are more to touches and guys are more to visuals and sounds, am I right?
     
  2. unfocusedanakin

    unfocusedanakin The Archaic Revival Lifetime Supporter

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    The only women I have known to watch porn was a very unstable person. She's an ex room mate, would watch on her lab top in our living room. I am watching the TV and I hear "oh baby" or something like that, after a bit she would go to her room (to take care of herself I assume). It was quire awkward, but technically her name was the only one on the lease. I was the hippie who needed a place, so what could I say. She has border line personality disorder, but I won't go into that here.
    Eventually I was able to find better living conditions lucky for me.

    I think women enjoy the emotional aspect of sex more. So to see people fucking without that emotional atachment does not appeal to them. That's why they like things like romantic comedy's, it's all about the connection. Men have sex with their penis, women do it with their heart. My current girlfriend has never mentioned porn, and we have been together a long time now. I think most women don't care for it.
     
  3. lugubrious

    lugubrious Member

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    :iagree:

    God I love these smilies.
     
  4. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    A lot of STABLE women enjoy porn just as much as men do. Just because they are women and are more inclined to enjoy the emotional aspect of sex doesn't mean they can't enjoy the visual aspect such as porn, and vice versa. Regardless of sex, we're all sexual beings and we enjoy sexually charged things at a primal level.
     
  5. DMFP

    DMFP Member

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    I agree with above - have known many men and women who enjoy porn:rockon:
     
  6. I'm a woman and I enjoy porn!
    I just don't like the porn where men are choking the girl.
    Thats a big turn off for me.
     
  7. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    *tips hat* :)
     
  8. GoofyGooberz

    GoofyGooberz Just Bitchy!!!!!!!!

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    I'm a married woman and I watch porn a fair bit. With my hubby before sex. I do like the visual.

    I get really turned on as well sometimes.

    We enjoy getting new movies as well like picking them out type thing.
     
  9. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    women who like porn are lesbians

    after all

    porn is made for men

    'beautiful' woman being nailed by an extremely unattractive man

    what number of women tune in to watch him?
     
  10. GoofyGooberz

    GoofyGooberz Just Bitchy!!!!!!!!

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    I do!
     
  11. spexxx

    spexxx Member

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    No, they actually use their genitals as well. I'm not sure how I know this.
     
  12. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    nobody that i'm aware of.
     
  13. birsha

    birsha Member

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    I enjoy it, but I'll admit I tend to enjoy the amateur stuff more than the actual porn with paid actors. Amateur stuff feels more real and I imagine the back stories about the people I'm watching. Maybe they had a fight right before? Maybe they just went to grocery store, or got back from a concert? I also get off on the idea that these people are sharing their sex lives with us. I'm not near brave enough to do the same though.
     
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  14. jamgrassphan

    jamgrassphan Get up offa that thing Lifetime Supporter

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    There's porn and there's sex positive porn. Most mainstream porn is just plain boring, the gonzo crap with the harsh lighting and the over-the-top bad acting and fake orgasms, and the obligatory money shot ending. and more recently, the disturbing "think of novel ways to make the scene seem as violent as possible - in other words, Van Nuys porn.

    But if you look a little, you can find good porn, with genuine performers who don't look and act like cookie cutter porn stars. Sex positive and geared toward female sensibilities (and a lot of it coming out of SF with regard to U.S. porn), but really it's just a welcome and badly needed alternative for both men and women.

    I like real BDSM, but real BDSM requires that all participants are really getting off on whatever part they're playing. Watching some dude choke, gag and slap the piss out of some porn star with a fake smile glued to her face, who clearly isn't enjoying herself - what's sexy about that? It's not pushing the envelope - it's just contractual rape - and I think you'd really have to fucking hate women (or men) to get off on watching them getting paid to be abused. I mean, I understand that there are a lot of frustrated men out there, but jacking off to that shit is not a healthy way to deal with it. And I worry about a generation of young men and women growing up watching that misogynistic shit. It just seems like a big step backwards from the sexual liberation front, to me.
     
  15. Ivory62

    Ivory62 Senior Member

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    My new partner loves porn. 3somes, DPs, anal....she is a self-confessed "sick puppy".

    And I adore her. So few women are allowed (whether by themselves, their conditioning, society, whatever) to be truly liberated sexual beings. To have found one who is openly and brazenly sexually charged after years of being married to Mrs Ice Queen Get That Damn Thing Away From Me No I won't Suck It You Pervert Anal Is For Gay Men Once Every Few Months In The Dark Is Enough I Have A Headache Go Sleep In The Other Room....well, it's wonderful.

    Go porn. Go women who enjoy it.
     
  16. weeattoes

    weeattoes what will be, will be

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    I personally, don't care to watch porn myself..
    When i masterbate i just turn on some music...


    But i know many woman that watch porn on a daily basis..
    Married and single women and they are all decent. Those of you that don't know women that watch porn i'm sure you know plenty of women that do, they just don't share that they do so. Porn, sex and masterbation are subjects that people are very shy and modest about and don't like to share so much. I am very open.. Ask just about anything and i will tell...

    Just because your a woman doesn't mean you don't enjoy porn.
    A lot of women also like to go to erotica and read things too...
    I personally enjoy the emotional aspect of sex.. "making love'' but thats not why i don't enjoy porn.. Just watching two people fuck isn't my do. I have watched different porn shows to get ideas from though.. Different positions and stuff though i like to change it up sometimes.
     
  17. Tarp

    Tarp Member

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    Like everything else, some like it, some don't. None of us should underestimate the numbers that get off on it, nor should they assume those that do are unstable. In fact, I'm going to guess that a greater percentage of women that don't like porn have more "issues" than those who like it. Though porn is more mainstream than a few decades ago, it is still a taboo and controversial subject. Due to this and religious reasons, the the number of closet porn watchers are probably staggering.

    As for my wife, the first time we watched porn together, barely out of our teens, she could only handle 5 minutes before she was practically begging for sex. She still watches it two decades+ later. We mostly watch it together but she has been known to watch it alone and masterbate to it. Her favorite is DP, up and close, hard and fast. She likes to fu*k while watching it. She's as stable as any woman I have known. A professional. Quiet and looks like a librarian. Grew up in a small town in a conservative church going family. Never assume anything.
     
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  18. Fingermouse

    Fingermouse Helicase

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    Sounds like you haven't known many women.

    I also hate romantic comedies.

    I'm just a person like you with tastes and preferences. Cocks and fucking and sex are good, corny teen dramas are not good. What next, only schizo chicks don't like baking brownies with a floral apron on?
     
  19. pipgirl

    pipgirl Member

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    oh please women do enjoy porn! I'm not saying all of them, but many.
    I love porn, and i watch it often, and i do get a lot of stimulation from it. I am also a stable woman in a serious relationship.
    and yes, in porn normally a hot girl is being nailed by unattractive guys. but guys like to watch the girl. that's why the girl has to be hot.
    i watch it for the action, so i really don't care how the girl or the guys look :)
     
  20. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    you would watch two ugly people having sex?
     

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