I have an ex friend who uses getting raped as an excuse to make girls feel sorry enough to sleep with him. One of his lines: "I just don't feel any affection unless it's sexual."
Sadly enough. He says not to blame it on him, but rather, blame it on his past. The idiocy of some people is just mind blowing. Yeah, girls have some pathetic attraction to him. Pretty sad.
From a psychological point of view, it varies... depending on the situation some of the victims turn to sex. On the other hand, some are never able to have a real relationship afterwards. It just depends on several different aspects. The level of affection is understandable in a way, however, he has been in serious relationships before. The last relationship went on for a year, and it came down to morals. When he began to realize the girl wanted to wait until there was a commitment, he became distant and used his past as an excuse as to why he had less and less contact. "Because of my past, I cannot get any closer to you until we have sex." Thus, trying to guilt her into having sex with him because of what happened.
ok i get what you're saying, but it doesn't seem like it is really affecting him in that way, he's just using it as an excuse
yah well it makes me angry to know that men like to manipulate women like that. wtf ever. anyway *hugs*
Dear Epiphany, Please tell this man from myself that he is a loser, and remind him that I think he is a loser. Thankyou. P.S. he is a loser.