Im 19 and have never had a gay relationship before. I've thought of girls before and until 2 years ago haven't thought of ever being with one. 5 months ago I met an amazing girl Sky. She has changed my life. She's been gay her whole life so of course she's going to be a heck of alot more experienced than me. She's the 1st girl I've ever been with so I have zero experience. She says I'm amazing with my mouth by when it comes to my hands I have no clue what I'm doing and sometimes she seems uncomfortable and has to tell me to stop and change what I'm doing. It would be ok if i were learning from my mistakes but the thing is I have NO clue what I'm doin wrong.. Can you tell me how to use my hands so that I can make her feel as good as she makes me feel?
I think everybody been there But she's suppose to tell you how she likes it. Communicate with her and watch her face expressions You can also look up lesbian porn and see what they do
Practice makes perfect honey!!!! Just try lots of foreplay, and make sure she's really wet before you put your fingers inside her, coz as we all know, that's really not a very nice feeling. Just try really slow strokes, and work up to the faster stuff. Try rubbing her clit really softly first, then work it up a bit. If all else fails, ask her to show u what she likes. I love watching my gf masturbate.... very hot!!! If she isn't comfortable doing that then just go by her facial expressions and breathing, just like Dreams said.
Thanks guys I haven't had the chance to try what you said but when I do I'll be sure to try what u all say :]
Don't worry about "what you're doing wrong" ... from time to time we all do somethign wrong, and what will be "wrong" differs from person to person, and even from day to day (and certainly at different points in the cycle). So focus on what you're doing RIGHT. Are you doing things she likes more often than you used to? If so (and I'll bet you are) then you ARE learning. So stop being so hard on yourself, yeah?
Just talk to her. Also if she lets you put a finger in her find her G-spot. There is a good blog on finding it and what to do when you find it. http://menssexualhealthinfo.wordpress.com/g-spot/
Thank you guys so much u all really helped. I did, however, notice (or rather didn't notice) that when she orgasms she doesn't ehhh... Well when I orgasm it's very very obvious. I arch and squirt and well... It's hard not not notice my climax. But for her, I have zero clue when she has orgasmed. She doesn't really contract or anything. Is she faking sometimes? Or can orgasms really be that different between different women?
Even is she is quiet, her body should shake. Come right out and ask her. I am sure you are doing just fine, don't blame yourself. If you know how to get yourself off, I bet you are doing the same to her. LOL That's why we work, women know what other women like.
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