promiscuity and sexual activity in the tenth grade

Maybe I'm just naive..
maybe i'm just stupid....

Today(and just today alone) I was reminded of/told about/brought to the realization that three of my friends were having sex..
It just seems so...weird..
Maybe I'm some sort of subconsious prude..
but I can't see myself having sex this young(and thinking about it..i suppose in society today, i'm not that young at all)

blah blah blah..



.maybe i'll put a poll..

 

some kids just like to start experimenting with sex at a younger age. 15-16 is where many of my friends lost their virginity i bet...


i remember back in the 8th grade, this girl in my class was talking about giving a handjob to her boyfriend...of course, because i was so sexually misled at that point in my life, i had no idea what they were talking about



i say, just let them have their fun, and they may end up with STD's if they arent smart when they are that young, and perhaps it will be more worthwhile to you to wait until your even in your 20's...of course i think 18 is a good age...really though, whenever your ready, we can do it micha

 

different people are ready for sex at different times. most kids that have sex that young arent really ready, they just feel pressured into doing it or they do it to look "cool" I dont think having sex makes you any cooler than if you dont. But its a personal decision you have to make for yourself. And it doesnt make someone slutty or a whore if they start having sex that young, they just decided to make that decision and as long as they are smart and safe, its not hurting anybody and is really none of anyone elses concern.

 

Sexual activity definately varies from person to person.

In the 7th grade, I knew this girl who had a couple of abortions.

 

wow. that would be traumitizing. especially at that age.

 

I don't want yall to get me wrong, I mean..I really don't care if they're doing it..It's not like I'm gonna tell them something about 'oh..you're too young'
Because I really don't think that..

It's just weird to me, thats all

 

oh good..
i was just beginning to get worried..

 

thats life

 

"promiscuity"

yeah. you must be a prude.


ahha...i dunno, i don't really care what people do, sucks that some kids (specially girls) are pressured into it though.

 

yeah, i can understand how it could be weird to u.


to each their own i say.

 

i don't get it.

 

haha..i was joking but yeah..."promiscuity" is something that olde people or prudes usually say... cause just cause yer havin sex doesn't mean yer promiscuous...

i think.

 

hilariously enough, sex with 15 year olds is not even worth the bother.

 

well who says i was referin to the ones who just have sex?

 

'sides..
i like that word..

 

Thats what promiscuity usually refers to.

 

17% of couples praticing absinance has an unwanted pregneancy

 

Hahaha , that means they have sex with other people ..

And yeah, i'm kind of that way too ... It's not that I don't see myself having sex ... But i don't understand anything about love and shit , and i'm way to immature , i'd like first to have some affection and after having sex . It's each's own for sure but when a girl talks about how she made a blowjob to his bf, i'm just wondering if she was doing that to please him .. Society and people in general have sex earlier but i wonder if they are pressured to it .. I shouldn't worry about that though , i have never had even something that can be called as a beginning phase of a prelation thingy with a girl

 

well that, or it means that they "practice" abstinance, but they aren't so good at it