Do men truly get turned on when women like myself have intense orgasms?? I am one of those and sometimes I get embarrassed!! I shake uncontrollably and feel dumb for a few seconds (im sure picturing that is sexy eh? haha). I get somewhat rough close to the climax and when its release time..... ya... I dont even know who i am or where i am. My friends dont seem to understand me so much when I explain so I thought i'd ask the rest of the worl to see what men truly think..
The orgasm is what it is about, there are alot of girls who wish they could orgasm with intercourse don't be embarrassed. Love it.
The woman's response to me is what turns me on. Knowing she's having an earth shaking orgasm makes me explode. There is no such thing as looking dumb during an orgasm; it's all sexy, and more so than you can imagine. Truly the best though I think is to make a woman feel so good she cries.
i get turned on when women have intense orgasms. as far as women like yourself, i don't know. what do you look like?
my ex-gf was quite shy, and i used to ADORE!! seeing her orgasm. especially if she was riding me cowgirl. i loved having her face with eyes closed , moaning and heavy breathing up-close to my face. everytime she finished cumming, i loved this certain embarassed look she got , as she slowly opened her eyes again to look at me. im havin flashbacks of her cute flushed red face with beads of sweat on her cheeks and forehead;-)
Good to know! quite honestly, I have never slept with anyone so im not aware of the other persons reaction. I have these intense orgasms from masturbation or while fingered from previous experiences, but like i said im more comfortable to orgasm hard when im alone rather then having an intimacy with someone else, cuz I feel embarrassed at times lol. & no, incase you are wondering.. i am not a teenage young girl.. im actually in my late 20's and as horny as i am, and as curious as i am, i have made this decision to keep my virginity until i am ready and with someone that i love. but i DO know that the man that i chose will probably have the best sex life with me haha.. i was so horny the other day i orgasmed 3 times in one day, never happens to me! thank you all for your replies!
My wife and I were both virgins when we married 21 years ago. I was 22 and she was 19. We have remained true to each other since then. This is a very special relationship that hardly anyone enjoys anymore. We plan on living happily ever after.
Definitely incredibly sexy, the harder she cums the harder I cum. How could seeing the woman you're having sex with in intense body shaking pleasure not be a huge turn on?
i too feel embarrassed about it. :blush5: but each one after is less embarrassing. In my experience they seem to LOVE it.
This is my absolute favorite thing and I'll tell you why: During those moments, the artificial walls a lot of women (and men for that matter) build up around themselves to project control, or dignity or whatever the hell one armors themselves with - they come crashing down and another human being gets to witness the essence of you. There's really nothing more intimate or sexy. Honestly, I don't think I could ever be in a serious relationship with a woman who stifled her orgasms after being with someone who loses control like you describe. I'd say half of the women I've gotten involved with orgasmed this way and it was those relationships I cherish the most because they allowed themselves to trust me enough to really reveal themselves this way to me and there was always a level of intimacy far and above the others. And even though those relationships didn't last, I can say that they ended on good terms I still feel and share an undeniable connection and closeness to them that I don't share with the others. I suppose some men would derive some kind of ego boost from it, but in my experience I've never perceived it as something that I've done or given to a woman - it's far beyond that and I just feel grateful to be in the presence of it. I know that sounds weird and worship(y?), but I don't care. I freakin' love it.
Yes, it's great when a woman really "loses it" and cums hard. My wife gets very red in the face, fully flushed, starts some shallow panting, sometimes saying very quietly "oh God, oh God, oh God" on each exhale. When she does come, I can feel her vaginal walls convulse several times, then the whole thing just quivers. She usually is dead silent at this point, and maybe is holding her breath. If she's on top of me, she will usually sit up, taking all of me inside her, up against her cervix, and she will just hold steady there and ride it out. Yes, it's very sexy and I love her hard orgasms. (My wife is also a squirter, a skill she's developed later in life. She used to do it very rarely, but now does it 90% of the time we make love. Sometimes a little, but often a lot. When she's on her game, there's a puddle the size of a basketball on the sheets.)
Excitement, Fulfillment and Euphoria = Nothing better than seeing your partner reach such a climax of satisfaction