Im an 18 year old male who just began having sex with my girlfriend of over a year. We were both virgins, and have had sex only a couple times. We have begun experimenting, and I've made her cum twice already. The only problem is that I haven't cum yet, and often even have trouble even getting hard. I enjoy the feeling, but for some reason cant get off on it enough to cum. What am I doing wrong, and how can I change it??
Do you worry about getting it up when you are having sex with your girlfriend? I am not sure what kind of advice to give you cause I am not a man. But I do want to say this, since your girlfriend was a virgin as well. I don't think you should blame it on her, blaming someone else in a relationship can be so tempting. But taking equal blame is what a relationships about. Tiffany
Not getting it hard with that age points probably to being nervous. You cum when masturbating? If so then I wouldn't worry about anything. Just relax and have fun. Not to make your GF worry you can fake orgasm.
How can he do that? There is the part where a guys cum has to drip out at some point and doesn't it throb when a guy is cumming?
Yeah wheres the cream gonna cum from, plus I am sure cum has a trexture that cream doesn't lol. Plus not all women want the cum in their face, some would prefer it inside them. Tiffany
Don't worry dude same shit happened to me my first few times. It's just nerves. Just stop worrying about your performance and have fun. Shouldn't be too hard considering she was a virgin too. My first was older and way more experienced so those were big shoes to fill (uhh, literally ). You'll get the hang of it.
It totally normal to be anxious and nervous when you first have sex. In time you'll relax. Practice kissing gentley for a long time, never enter your partner until she is wet. Cuddle your GF for as long as you like. Kiss her around the neck very gentley from her shoulders up to her ears, maybe even run your bottom lip up to her ears lobe and repeat this ... Look for goose bumps on her legs or body that means its working. A women can't be too wet. Caress her body with your hands it has to be done ever so gently like the wings of a butterfly. Before long she be trying to get you to enter her, just keep teasing her ...
The first guy I had sex with, I was his first, too. It took him a while to cum, because he was nervous. He wasn't completely comfortable with his body, and so he couldn't preform properly. If that's your problem I guess what you have to do is completely focus and forget everything else that's going on. That's what he said he did, anyway. ;P I don't know because I'm female, but hey. ;]
