they need some lovin too. everyone talks about how they like loud and outgoing people. and i think that's a shame.
I've never really heard anyone say that they like really loud people... I like quiet, loud, medium talkers, non-talkers, i like them all...
I like people how they are, if they are nice to me Loud obnoxious people get on my nerves.......hence there are moments I want to escape myself
I meant as in a sense, of talkative and outgoing. They seem to have lots of friends, where ae people that are more shy aren't really appreciated for their quiteness.
that's because the loud dumbfucks don't have any material to judge you with they just have "quiet, shy" and therefore, nothing to react to
hmmmmm, I'd rather be around someone quiet who occasionally came out with something interesting to say, than someone who just talks and talks and won't shut the hell up.
Its not that people like outgoing people better....its that outgoing people put themselves out there so that you don't have to work hard to get to know them Someone shy is kinda hard to read and many times misunderstood, unfortunately.
i suspect many people prefer the outgoing type because it's less work to befriend someone outgoing than someone who would rather just sit at home alone all the time.
i like working the middle. its comfy and i don't have to work that hard and i don't have to be someone who isn't me
when did i say that? i'm a quiet person; i would generally rather sit at home alone. i don't find it boring at all most of the time. but if someone wanted to befriend me, they would have to either come here all the time or else call me and make me go out whenever they wanted to see me, whereas if i were more outgoing i would be out there in the same places as my friends and i would be calling them to hang out and going to their houses and they would have less work to do.
i'm sorry to tell you this; i know how important your back scab was to you. but billy fell off a few days ago.