Red Flags

What are the red flags or warning signs that would concern you when starting a new relationship? In other words, what qualities or behaviors of your partner would be a deal breaker?

 

manipulativeness

 

that's it? lol

 

Dumbness

 

She has a penis

 

A red flag I experienced once was showing up unexpectedly and finding him drinking hard liquor by himself. A beer is fine, but getting drunk alone is not ok for me.

(That was the first sign he was an alcoholic...there were more after that, but that was the red flag.)

Telling me I could not wear certain clothes when going out with my friends. (Same guy...yeah, he was dumped not long after)

 

Changing their attitude towards you when out with friends is something I don't like and if it's too much, it wouldn't last long.

 

^^^ You really wouldn't like George Thorogood


Instant deal breakers:

-vanity
-she's a bitch more often then not
-bossy
-her friends suck
-she's critical of others
-arrogance
-wants a guy to buy her shit all the time
-one of her previous weekend hobbies was taking dick

 

if, on a first date, she stabs you with her fork at the dinner table and proclaims to being the 'lord of fish fingers'.

 

All the ex's are in the freezer in the basement

 

lol...

what if the person were prone to saying mean things when angry? angry outbursts? etc

 

Most people do that. In my experience people often say things they don't mean when they're angry. Not so much to express distaste, the words are only used to vent, an outlet to express and get out the negative feelings inside. Some people can't use words to express how they feel so they smash and break things when they're angry, another red flag if you see this quality in a person.

 

secretive texting.....leaving the room when cell phone rings

 

ducking whenever they see a police car lol

 

I could have done with this thread a week ago

 

lol, and what would you add, tipsy?

 

Right now, I would say relationships suck, stay away from they. But, I'll feel differently again soon and post something useful!

 

I hate that! I had a girlfriend once who, in the middle of conversations, would leave if her phone rang. She was completely addicted to the fucking thing. I don't put up with cellphone addicts anymore, they can hit the fucking road. If your out with someone, then be out, that's the whole point of going out; to get away from shit.

 

How do you always come up with something like this pmsl.

 

He was dropped when he was young.