Relationship Advice

So I put this in the relationship section of the forums, but nobody reads that shit and I really need advice soon.

So about two weeks ago I started dating this girl. She is my first girlfriend (meaning I have never kissed anybody, this is important). Tonight we had the usual group over at her house for a movie and after they all left she blatantly tried to get me to kiss her. I was going for it but then got nervous and wimped out. We are both shy people and I know it took a lot for her to do that. I have been beating myself up over it ever since I got home and I am hoping that she doesn't see this as me not liking her. I am trying to decide whether to explain to her why I didn't kiss her or if I should just wait for the next opportunity and go for it. What do you guys think?

 

make the next oppurtunity asap and fuckin go for it dude its just a kiss just go with the flow dude

 

yeah man give here a kiss, be open about every thing, most shellas under stand shit pritty good i think, haha rock on man

 

yeah dude rock on, most importantly

 

definitely call her up soon and initiate new plans with her.. make a move on her next time
good luck, that's exciting

 

don't tell her you wimped out. she probly knows already anyway

be a fucking man. if she's sending you signals then just fucking kiss her cause she'll go with it. women want a guy that's going to take initiative. they send the signals but you gotta make the first move

 

your girlfriend wants you to kiss her and you pussy out so you go home and make a thread on a website asking strangers for advice?

do you really need us to tell you to just kiss this chick? hey maybe one day she might want to touch your weiner too.

 

Kiss her next time.. Maybe hang out with her without your friends and shit.

I know I still don't like kissing my girlfriend in front of my buddies and we've been together for basically our lives... She likes doing it though... Sometimes I think she does it just to piss me off

But anyway just plant a big 'ol smooch on her. Sure maybe the first 3 seconds will be awkward but after that it gets fun.

Trust me man, and if your still a virgin and your gonna fuck her soon remember this:

Don't be silly, wrap your willy. :hat:

 

why are people being dicks to this kid

 

I would just go ahead and kiss her the next time you get an opportunity to.

 

cause he's too much of a bitch to kiss his girlfriend

 

i lol'd

 

KISS her! take charge honey thats what we find to be sexy.

 

What I don't get is if she wanted to kiss you so bad why didn't she just do it?

oh ok you were both shy...just be brave and kiss her. Youll be glad you did even if it doesnt go anywhere.

 

ain't it the truth..i've never gotten a girl pregnant but god knows i probably deserved it at one point.

plus you save yourself a shit load of worries this way

 

Don't chicks suck man?

 

heres what you should do. go over to her house. grab her and kiss her on the lips. youll get your confindence to do it after you kiss her. its manly and macho and really cute.

 

So it all worked out. We had the usual group for a movie and I walked her to her car afterwards. I just went for it during our good-bye hug and she kissed back.

 

You go girl!

 

good job buddy!

glad it worked out for ya