Single. Am i happy? Not sure. I have love that i need to give to someone/something. I need an animal or something.
Been Single For Years And I Can't See That Changing.... I Try To Keep An Open Mind Should The Opportunity Arise, But People My Age Are So Set In Their Ways They Have No Room In Their Lives For A Lover... So, It's Just Me And The Cats..*crazy cat dude*... Cheers Glen.
yeah. being single definitely has it's ups and downs awwwww. get a puppy <3 I hate cats. How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Maybe you should try batting for the other team... haha I feel similar. except my relationship has only been about a year and 9 months, roughly lol sometimes I wonder if I wish I single........ I think I liked myself more when I was single
Technically single and prefer it that way, but in a 'relationship' in the true sense - that is to say, I have emotional and physical relations with someone. I'm not looking forward to it becoming formal, which it probably will soon
Perhaps it would help to explore some of the things that she might have in common with you. This may be one of them.
I'm single. I love it. The biggest downs are people wondering if there's something wrong with me for not having a boyfriend (...there is, I'm terrified and committment phobic). And sometimes it's lonely, you don't feel "as important" to people as their partners are to them, and I wonder if I want to have someone feel that way about me. BUT most relationships I see are just full of drama and "having a boyfriend to have a boyfriend". And that's something that I really don't want. I'll wait. Just call me crazy cat lady. Lol Glen maybe we should start a shelter.
I've been married for 21 years and am very happy. I have an amazing with who puts up with me and all the family responsibility that come with me.
In a relationship for 5 years and I am very happy. I enjoy having a best friend that I also sleep with.
Good point. Our informality and spontaneity is actually one of our strengths together, it would be a shame to lose that.
Never been in "a relationship" I'm happy knowing I can find happiness outside of another person and within/without myself even. As to am I happy now? Yes Like someone said before, though - I have love to share.
in a relationship happy however, I was happy when I was single too. I think someone can only be happy in a relationship once they learn how to be happy alone. everything else is just codependency
hahah yeah I mean, I'm in my first "real" relationship...... it's weird, I was completely single until I was 20 years old (almost 21, actually) and I REALLY, with everything in me, thought that I just wasn't meant for relationships. I've always been overly independent, and genuinely just loved being alone... and just had casual sex if I needed affection. (sorry if that sounds slutty) then I met my boyfriend and everything changed. It all happened really fast too.. definitely next time around (if there is a next time) I will take things a lot slower. for instance, me and my boyfriend pretty much lived together after dating for 4/5 months. This might sound horrible but sometimes I wish I was single again. Blah. What if I'm settling??????? :willynilly: