Relationships

For or against? why?

 

I'm for em.. Because one day, I know I'll find the right person.

 

I'm for them, on a personal level. I don't think everyone is suited for a relationship though.

 

agree with both- although there are lots of people not ready for relationships (need to work on self etc as they only hurt others) humans are meant to form relationships- we need it

 

It all depends on the people involved, if the personal choices of both people can be equally respected and unhindered then its a sign of trust which many relationships dont seem to have...basically its hard to find someone who is happy for you to be the exact way you are and vice versa. Thats the only way a relationship will truly work. Ive yet to find someone like that who feels the same way but theres plenty of opportunities and time for the right person to come around so Im just going to wait until then...

In the mean time Im going to indulge in no strings-sex with a load of women

 

relationships is not for me,

 

i thought you were moving into a new place with your girlf?

 

. Imo

 

No she just lives around the corner so we spend most nights together but last night she realised how much drugs everyone here does, the rave last night there was about 300 people there including peoples parents and everyone was off their face, found out how anti drugs she is.

She left without saying anything (it was in the sand dunes so that meant a 20€ taxi home) and was pissed off that I was taking drugs. Unless she can come to terms with what I choose to take then I cant see things going much further beetween us.

 

My grandparents got married at 18 an 21, and they've been married for 58 years, and they rarely go anywhere without the other.

Somehow thought that was relevaNt.

 

thats crazy.. are they happy or bitter?

 

ah i see-
well, good luck with that one its hard to find gals that are completely cool with drugs unless they themselves take them- nevertheless- i hope it works out groovy and what not if its meant to be yaknow

 

Dispite my bitter divorce after 13 years of marage, I am still for relationships. Hell, a few years later, I was already involved with another woman before my divorce was dry. Not that I did not try one more time with my ex-wife but once that was done it was really over. So, I moved on. As a result I am in a much better relationship. My fiance and I are very happy and looking forward to our wedding in September.

 

Fuck that noise.

A girlfriend honestly is just a whole second set of problems. Not saying if I found someone who absolutely blew my mind I wouldn't want to be exclusive with her. But I'm not gonna be in a relationship just for the sake of having one. Fuck buddies are a better alternative imo.

 

For. I can understand why guys don't want to deal with having to answer to a girl all the time. But honestly,those are just the girls they seem to find. There are chill girls who just want to love and be loved exclusively. there are a lot of guys who think a girl needs to be "accounted for" at all times. just stop being with controlling people and youll be fine.

 

So, you are saying that women are not controling naturally?

 

I think some women are controlling because they had bad experiences with loser guys and don't know how to make the transition between different guys.

And I'm saying men can be controlling too. It's not necessarily "natural" for either sex. It really depends on the person and stereotypes that cause so many to think that's how they need to be.

 

Crazy happy

 

i never felt totally for or against relationships before.. i'm kind of indifferent maybe? i'm not looking for a monogamous, committed relationship right now, though. i don't know when i will be.

 

exactly