Relationships

Discussion in 'Stoners Lounge' started by wutthe4k, Mar 7, 2010.

  1. wutthe4k

    wutthe4k Mr. Mojo Risin'

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    For or against? why?
     
  2. 90 paces west

    90 paces west Member

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    I'm for em.. Because one day, I know I'll find the right person.
     
  3. TopNotchStoner

    TopNotchStoner Georgia Homegrown

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    I'm for them, on a personal level. I don't think everyone is suited for a relationship though.
     
  4. sunberry and buttons

    sunberry and buttons Member

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    agree with both- although there are lots of people not ready for relationships (need to work on self etc as they only hurt others) humans are meant to form relationships- we need it
     
  5. Bad.Fish

    Bad.Fish Sex wee pon de babylon

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    It all depends on the people involved, if the personal choices of both people can be equally respected and unhindered then its a sign of trust which many relationships dont seem to have...basically its hard to find someone who is happy for you to be the exact way you are and vice versa. Thats the only way a relationship will truly work. Ive yet to find someone like that who feels the same way but theres plenty of opportunities and time for the right person to come around so Im just going to wait until then...

    In the mean time Im going to indulge in no strings-sex with a load of women :p
     
  6. Jennifer19

    Jennifer19 Senior Member

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    relationships is not for me,
     
  7. sunberry and buttons

    sunberry and buttons Member

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    i thought you were moving into a new place with your girlf?
     
  8. Nero_Designs

    Nero_Designs Inhaled Dreams

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    . Imo
     
  9. Bad.Fish

    Bad.Fish Sex wee pon de babylon

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    No she just lives around the corner so we spend most nights together but last night she realised how much drugs everyone here does, the rave last night there was about 300 people there including peoples parents :p and everyone was off their face, found out how anti drugs she is.

    She left without saying anything (it was in the sand dunes so that meant a 20€ taxi home) and was pissed off that I was taking drugs. Unless she can come to terms with what I choose to take then I cant see things going much further beetween us.
     
  10. Nero_Designs

    Nero_Designs Inhaled Dreams

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    My grandparents got married at 18 an 21, and they've been married for 58 years, and they rarely go anywhere without the other.

    Somehow thought that was relevaNt.
     
  11. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    thats crazy.. are they happy or bitter?
     
  12. sunberry and buttons

    sunberry and buttons Member

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    ah i see-
    well, good luck with that one :) its hard to find gals that are completely cool with drugs unless they themselves take them- nevertheless- i hope it works out groovy and what not :) if its meant to be yaknow
     
  13. Startreken

    Startreken Marijuana Chef!

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    Dispite my bitter divorce after 13 years of marage, I am still for relationships. Hell, a few years later, I was already involved with another woman before my divorce was dry. Not that I did not try one more time with my ex-wife but once that was done it was really over. So, I moved on. As a result I am in a much better relationship. My fiance and I are very happy and looking forward to our wedding in September.
     
  14. Sam_Stoned

    Sam_Stoned Senior Member

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    Fuck that noise.

    A girlfriend honestly is just a whole second set of problems. Not saying if I found someone who absolutely blew my mind I wouldn't want to be exclusive with her. But I'm not gonna be in a relationship just for the sake of having one. Fuck buddies are a better alternative imo.
     
  15. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    For. I can understand why guys don't want to deal with having to answer to a girl all the time. But honestly,those are just the girls they seem to find. There are chill girls who just want to love and be loved exclusively. there are a lot of guys who think a girl needs to be "accounted for" at all times. just stop being with controlling people and youll be fine.
     
  16. Startreken

    Startreken Marijuana Chef!

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    So, you are saying that women are not controling naturally?
     
  17. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    I think some women are controlling because they had bad experiences with loser guys and don't know how to make the transition between different guys.

    And I'm saying men can be controlling too. It's not necessarily "natural" for either sex. It really depends on the person and stereotypes that cause so many to think that's how they need to be.
     
  18. Nero_Designs

    Nero_Designs Inhaled Dreams

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    Crazy happy
     
  19. DazedGypsy

    DazedGypsy fire

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    i never felt totally for or against relationships before.. i'm kind of indifferent maybe? i'm not looking for a monogamous, committed relationship right now, though. i don't know when i will be.
     
  20. M4N14C42O

    M4N14C42O Cannabis Connoisseur

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    exactly
     

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