Sometimes the intensity of the hurt is just your subconscious trying to tell your conscious something it oughta know ...
Saying goodbye to someone you have feelings for or love is never easy to do. It doesn't matter if it was your decision or theirs, it hurts. All I can say is that it will get a little easier each day, to the point you don't think about that person anymore or it may never completely go away. It just depends what kind of impact that person had on you. Try to find new things to fill your day with, new ways to look at things and if like you said he doesn't deserve you then reinforce that and move on. One day you will find someone that does deserve your love and you will know it by how perfect it feels and how comfortable you are around that person. Good Luck to all of you and your friends here support you. :grouphug:
Saying Goodbye even if you feel they don't deserve you is tough...Just a part of life that we live... And even though they will be a permanent memory...doesn't mean that it has to be a bad memory...
Thanks guys. This guy was someone I almost married, someone I had a connection with like none other before or since. But he made a lot of decisions that told me he didn't love me like I loved him. Now, after 5 months, I have the strength to move on.
Yeah i've tried online dating and dating in real life, just not that interested in anybody. I'd rather just focus on my life and school instead of guys. You know?
I'll try to explain. My partner betrayed me in ways that I never even dreamed she could, never mind would ... and I did my best to walk away. But the hurt was so intense, that despite my promise to myself that I wouldn't look back, when she begged me to go back with her I did. Because I loved her so much, so deeply, so tenderly ... that despite everything she'd done to me my subconscious said "Don't you DARE walk away from her". And so it gave me enough hurt that I couldn't stick to my resolve, and she was able to persuade me to go back. DOesn't apply to the OP's situation, though, if it is her partner who has walked away; but we didn' tknow that at teh time I posted.
I can understand that. I had the same feelings too. But, really, me and him were both walking away. He was just walking faster than I was, and started way before.
Alright thank you for explaining. Did you regret going back to her? I mean love is strong, and if it is true love, you both can work it out again. I hope.
What didn't he do? He cheated on me with my best friend and someone ten years younger than him. (he's 26, man). And now he's being an even worse friend so I said forget it, threw up my hands. Ever since I said good bye I have felt SO much better about myself.
In some ways, I regret it every day. And yet I know I had no other option. This is my life. It's not the "happily ever after" ending I always hoped for. And there's nowhere near as much togetherness and tenderness as I'd imagined there would be. And the pain is there every day, ans sometimes stabs em through the heart when we're making love so I just have to stop, because all I can think about is ... well, le't not go there. BUT I still love her to distraction. She still makes me happy in ways i cannto even begin to describe. And this is where I am.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H46a3fZhS9Y"]Aerosmith love hurts with lyrics .wmv - YouTube Aint that the truth! Best o' luck
