Well ... trust me ... This is scary personal ... ok, here, read this crazy shit, it will probably piss you off too ... The otha night my b/f said i have 4 strikes against me ... 3 for kissing my ex {when he actually kissed me, and and he even said these should be strikes against him, not me} and 1 for cutting again {on my hip for everyone's info}. So he said these strikes should be made up by going to the movies {me paying for him, how screwed up is that?} & letting him touch my breast {scary}. Well I when to school the next day {Fri.} and told my ex about this, and he was like "no, not gonna happen, i wont let it happen, it's not gonna happen." and the whole time he was saying this i could tell he was totally pissed cuz he wouldnt stop moving. Then he hugged me and was like are you alright? and i just said ya even though i really wasnt. Then he walked off all pissed then came back, and basically stayed with me till almost the end of lunch hugging me asked a couple times if i was alright and told some of my friends what was going on. anyway he told me not to break up with my b/f yet cuz he wants to seriously talk to him {but he said kick his ass} at CL , and i told my best friend and she said she's gonna talk to him at CL not my ex. anyway this is way too long , more info lata, oh and he did apoligize but i dont give a crap. didnt tell him that though.
That doesn't sound particularly healthy, that he's trying to blackmail you into doing stuff (like letting him grope you) rather than trying to help you out with your problems. Obviously cutting isn't healthy behaviour, why isn't he trying to help find teh source? Ask him to sit down and the two of you talk rationally and calmly (as much as possible) about that, and about how you don't feel like he shows enough public displays of affection (mentioned in your other post) like hugging and such. TALK TO HIM about what's going on, communication is key in every relationship, not blackmail.
break up with him. he's fucked in the head, girl. if he's blackmailing you into doing things for having "three strikes" that's fucked. fuck him. he has no right to tell you what to do, period. you are your own person. that's just fucked up and it makes me so mad when guys behave that way. ugh. run, girl. run and never look back! *disclaimer: this is just my opinion. it is your choice what to do. i understand this may not be what you want to hear. it just sounds like a toxic relationship. i usually do not ever give flat-out advice on these forums, but in this case, to ME, this sounds like you should leave him. but if you don't feel like that is the best thing to do, it is up to you. this is your life, not mine. i'm merely giving my opinion...
Both guys seem like dickheads run for your life. Your ex doesn't seem too bad but he shouldn't of kissed you seeing how you have a boyfriend. May I ask why you broke up with your ex?
He's now my ex- after him and a girl that i thought was my friend got on three-way on the phone with me & destroyed my self-esteem... Oh and {Duck}, my ex broke up with me , the last time....first he got with me, then i broke up with him, cuz i didnt no him well enough.... then i asked him out agian...then i broke up with him cuz he was chasing after my friends.... then he got back with me, then he broke up with me - with no explaination....
