Question for the chickies...and guys too, I suppose. Asked the GF the other night about her first anal experiences (it's actually a game I play with her...talking about it often gets her thinking about doing it. But thats a different story). Like most girls, she said that it hurt like hell, the first few times. So I asked what it was that made her keep going back, until it started to feel good...? So, this got me thinking...lots of girls (and guys) love it in the ass, but what was it that made you go back the second or third time, even though you may not have liked (or even absolutely hated) it initially? Fetish? Determined experimentation? Alcohol??
first time i was 17...n it hurt like hell second time was wit one of my lovers i was 18 he said it didnt hurt if u used lube so we did it now i fuckin love anal......love love love it time to time ill let them do it without lube just to feel a lil pain (yes i know im kinda twisted a lil bit lol)
So what did your girlfriend say? PS. The only vaginal virgin I slept with said it hurt the first few times too - but she still wanted more!
First times were new territory. I made a point of not crossing the line of being pushy and just teased and went at her speed. The first time, it was nervousness, hangups and inhibitions about it. She did note that it did feel good. Just rubbing and a fingertip, first out. I was lucky that she experimented on her own with a dildo. The next time was an ease. Her asshole was hungry for my cock and I easily slid it in. We did it like she was into it for a long time. We enjoyed that phase for a while, then it ended. I discovered the great feelings the first time out. I had a woman eat and finger my ass, then fcuk me with a dildo. Holly Cow! I had never thought of my ass as a pleasure zone before. It took me years to get my wife to try it herself. When she stopped, she offered to do it to me instead. I jumped (or bent over) at the opportunity.
My wife wasnt sure what to expect but she actually liked it the first time. Said it felt good and was different. She joked that the first few thrusts felt like she was taking a shit that wouldnt quite come out. hahaha. Plus, she said the fact that its viewed as a "dirty" sex act made her all the more horny about it. Her biggest concern was cleanliness and worrying about me getting "messy". So, her "going back to it" was just to have some more fun with it. She said it never hurt or was uncomfortable. It felt good!
my wife never liked it before me.. but asked me one day if I wanted to try, she later told me she wanted to see if we'd diffirent.. now she loves it..
It didn't hurt that bad the 1st time, only getting his head in my ass did. I loved the way it felt. That's why I went back for it a 2nd time,& it only hurt getting my boyfriends head in & thts the only thing that ever hurts.
although it really hurt the first time it was the naughtyness of it that kept me doing it and the look on my bfs face when i asked if he wanted to do it
i was 13, maybe 14 the first time i tried it and i never looked back. i saw a chick doing it in a porn and said what the hell, tried it (with a small shampoo bottle) and loved it.
My first experience of Anal was also my first Gay encounter (not counting adolescent experiences), which was with someone I arranged a date with through Adult Friend Finder. For many years I had doubts about my sexuality - knowing I was sexually attracted to men, but also to women. The thing was that I didn't know if this was just a fantasy, or if I really was Bi, so I decided that the only way was to get down to it & try it out for real. When I eventually got the nerve up, once I had got over the initial pain of being penetrated, I was amazed at how I lost my erection, despite being highly mentally aroused, and then how I ended up having such a major climax & ejaculation from a still flaccid penis, purely from the prostate stimulation. This climax was far more powerful than any that I had experienced from Straight sex, before, or since - and not many masturbation sessions have even come that close. Having experienced this once confirmed my Bisexual leanings, leaving me totally at ease on subsequent occasions - often breaking in other men on their similar first experiences. I must admit that it's not often that the hot spot is hit with that much success - and on most occasions penetration isn't even possible, especially if the man I'm with is reasonably well endowed. However, whenever it does work, you know why you want to go back for more.
My wife prefers rough anal. She likes it that she gets pushed to that edge, but no so far where it hurts and we need to stop. She likes it when I push her limits anally. She likes that slightly soar feeling after anal, she said it makes her feel sexy.