Seeing ex's again

Do you still talk with many of your ex's? Keep in close contact or just occasionally talk to them, or ignore them all together?


I had coffee with one of my ex's today and it was.. awkward. Not the whole thing, but in parts. Lots of awkward silences. I feel like I did most of the talking, which I hate doing (I'm not a big talker), awkward moment of a compliment from him (ok I did dress up a bit but mostly it was a you-broke-up-with-this-sexy-bitch type move than anythign else. I guess it worked, just, weird).

But there's another ex who I talk to on msn a bunch and I really like talking with him! Admittedly we didn't date terribly long but he's a fun guy and nice to talk to, easy to talk with (he's verrry talkative, I like talkative people lol).

I don't talk at all with my first bf We just kinda fell out of contact and now I don't know how to re-initiate it, apparently the email addy I had for him is dead now. Which is unfortunate, because he's also a great guy.

Ex's are a strange bunch.

 

They certainly are a strange bunch!

I don't really keep in contact with any of my ex's at all. One of them, I was friends with for two years before we actually got together...after he fell in love with someone else, we stayed really great friends for awhile, but we have since drifted apart.

I can't imagine casually hanging out with any of my ex's...it would be too weird I think.

 

i went back out with my ex because i thought i was in love with him, what a nightmare that turned out to be, now im not talking to him anymore, and im glad, but he still is talking to my best friend, which is really weird but go fiqure.

 

i recently saw my ex fiance... he works in the same store as i do in a different department now. it was really short and i'm glad he approached me because it takes away from possible akwardness in the future.

but i usually never see any of my exes... my most recent i stayed friends with for a little while and he's a friend on myspace but i haven't seen him in over a year i think.

 

i dont talk to exs when its done its done

i would never date someone that stayed incontact with an ex either thatd be done before it even started

 

I have an ex in prison. She a georgeous girl.

...I bet she's making lots of friends.

Have two ex's who live out of the country, a dead ex, one with a kid (not mine), a few I see around this town every so often, and some who I don't have any idea.

 

I talk to one ex ever once in a while... IT was a couple of year before we started talking as friends after we broke up and it was weird. He told me that "I think of you often" Weird yes but he has a wife and kid now and I have my honey so I ignored it and we talk once in a while now.

 

Dang, you really screw those girls up don't you??? LOl

 

Heh, I just seem to get attracted to self destructive or insane women.

I blame the media.

 

my first love ever (and perhaps only) wont really talk to me, he lives far away where i lived when i did highschool...we see each other maybe once a year, but its complicated cos i broke up with him and he has never forgiven me...

one of my other ex's is a really good friend of mine.

and the last is a piece of work who seven months after i got rid of him still calls and stalks me - i like to refer to him as the psychopath...mm fun times

 

Shoot him in the fucking leg. He'll be stalking slow.

 

haha so creepy because just after i wrote that post he prank called me on my mobile. wtf? it's just too weird..

but soon i will be going overseas and he wont be able to keep up with me then i win!

 

Actually, a few weeks ago, Daniel met my first love. It was...incredibly awkward, but it went okay. Dan thought the ex came off a little strongly, he's been veggie for 6 years (the ex, not Dan, lol), and has discovered all sorts of crazy hippie sort of stuff in Dallas, so, I guess Daniel felt like his lifestyle wasn't good enough. Understandable, I sometimes feel the same way.

I talk to the guy I lost my virginity to every now and then, he enjoys hearing of my various piddly accomplishments and I like to hear how his film school is going.

Another ex is one of my better friends and he's around all the time, it's like we never even dated.

My first boyfriend...well...he's really super annoying and I'm glad I rarely hear from him, lol.

And then my last boyfriend, previous to Daniel, is...too hung up with making himself a "badass" to cover up his own sad insecurities (he's gorgeous, too...shame he doesn't know it) to really have much to do with anything but his party animal friends.

 

Yes....Im friends with most of my ex's.....this is a small place and all of us girls hang out in the same circle.....its cool.....and im also friends with THEIR ex's....

 

I have talked to a couple of them over email...I don't think many are still around here to "bump into"...

I think there's really only one I don't ever want to see again.

And Lodui...I've dated 2 guys who ended up in jail...

 

I have to talk to my ex fiance at least once a week since we have to dicuss our son. She's alright though, I mean I sometimes talk to her about her problems, I know that we both stil love each other, but it's just not meant to be. Oh well

 

I'm friends with all but three. If I had my choice I would be friends with all of them. I mean if I liked them enough to jam my tongue down their throat I would certinaly like them enough to be beer buddies and help them find a girl who is more suitable for them than me.

 

I don't talk with any of the people I have been with in the past. Like I said, I was with them in the past, and it should stay that way.

 

I don't talk to my ex's because what is done is done, like someone above me said. I occasionally "talk" but not really with my first boyfriend, which always ends bad... so like I said I don't talk to them.

 

i still hang out with my ex maybe once a week. we either go to the movies or dinner at his moms house. its nice and not complicated at least i think. althouigh there are sometimes where i can end up making it awkward, but thats just my personality. i couldnt imagine not being friends though. he showed me a lot of things i would of never seen before and hes just really awesome. its hard finding people like him nowadays. i will always love him. just not as much as i used to.