Sex is hard.

Discussion in 'Genitalia' started by kfly2, Jan 12, 2009.

  1. kfly2

    kfly2 Member

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    Sex is so hard for me because i cum so fast. I guess I have premature ejaculation. I try to make excuses like i have to go piss then i jack off real quick so i can last longer in sex but it's hard when your in the moment and i just say wait i gotta do this, then it takes awhile for me to get hard again. Idk if it's even worth it. So I'm looking for any tips or what have you. I've looked it up and i guess theres no solution which bums me out. I've seen something called climinax but you have to take it and hour before sex which again would be hard if your in the moment.

    Ty for any advice.
     
  2. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    learn about some transic monuvers try to control when u cum and all that stuff.

    how old are ya dude?
     
  3. kfly2

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    I'm 19, and ^ that sounds sketchy. Im sure she would notice.
     
  4. PineMan

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    Get in the habit of masturbating 2 - 3 times a day as standard before you're likely to be getting down to things. In this way, by the time things happen for real you'll be relatively spent for the day, which should help you last longer.

    As it happens, I have totally the opposite problem & usually have to hold back for a day or 2 beforehand to stand any chance of climaxing during sex without my own manual intervention.
     
  5. jia

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    See my advice in a previous thread. The advice wasn't for this particular issue but the advice is actually universal. Get good at licking pussy. If you make her cum about twice she probably won't remember how long you lasted when you start fucking her anyway.
     
  6. kfly2

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    Now this girl wants to have sex wed. Sigh....
     
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    agreed.. beat the shit out your dick till you cant cum no more..
     
  8. Ddoright

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    Go to any drugstore.In the section with the condoms and stuff they will have some bezocaine creams that you spread on the end of your penis. I think one of them is Delay - but there should be several there. I don't know about ambesol but I assume they have the same action. It numbs you up some. It doesn't effect the intensity of your orgasm but will extend you ability to last.
     
  9. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    How about a long...slow bout of foreplay so that she gets off during that...then you dont have to worry about how long the actual act lasts ?
     
  10. mmg

    mmg fish out of water

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    i dont know if its a part of your problem, but it has many health benefits and sex benefits to eat healthy and exercise.

    i'm a vegetarian and i run regularly. since i've started running my stamina is better. now i can usually last around 2 hours in the back seat and definitely 3 to 4 in the bedroom with some hydration and munchies around.
     
  11. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    WOW...............I forgot what I was gonna say........:D
     
  12. kfly2

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    Idk about the cream thing because i don't really want her knowing. I guess i could try masturbating a lot the day of, but then my dick will be all sore and shit. Does anyone else have this problem? Your dick is suppose to be like your best friend but mines like a friend that stabs me in the back.
     
  13. kfly2

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    I'm pretty active and i skate and play basketball/football. Maybe it's genetics. I hate my d.
     
  14. jia

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    How long do you last now? You never really said
     
  15. kfly2

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    Well when i masturbate i can cum in like a minute, it really bums me out.
     
  16. Dragonfly

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    that's definately one way to do it!
     
  17. green hell

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    think about other things...unsexy thoughts.
     
  18. kfly2

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    I'm skeptical about abusing my dick that much. I'll try.
     
  19. AT98BooBoo

    AT98BooBoo Senior Member

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    Start training when you masturbate. Go until your are close then stop. Wait a min or two then reapeat. Keep doing this and you will slowly condition yourself to last longer.

    You could have her go down on you before hand.
     
  20. kfly2

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    I've tried man. I'm just so sensitive it's really sad.
     

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