Sexual fantasy...is it a little gay?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by fullofquestions, Dec 31, 2009.

  1. fullofquestions

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    So today I was thinking of what they r n I came acrossone that I found that might be a little gay..I would like to have sex with either me another guy and a milf/18+ girl or a married couple. I consider myself to be a str8 guy. The only thing I would let the guy do is give me head n I would give him head that's all I would do with the guy...is that a little gay of a fantasy or just a sex fantasy? It's something I would defenitly do if I ever got the chance which I hope I do. I c it in porn all the time n don't c anything bad with it.
     
  2. DazedGypsy

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    i wouldn't be considered about labeling it.. just a fantasy.. maybe seek and enjoy :)
     
  3. Shale

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    At this point, if there was a label it would be "bi-curious." If you get the opportunity to suck a guy off, then you can determine how comfortable you felt and how excited it was and go from there for possible repeats.

    As said, ppl get too hung-up on labels. It is sex and that is fun, whether with a guy or a girl - just think about the fun and don't worry about being a little gay.
     
  4. St33l_Pulse

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    As stated, I don't feel that the label on the fantasy matters much.. if that's something you want, by all means go for it. The labels applied to the action should not matter if it's something you really want to do.
     
  5. MunaJadida

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    So what if it is a little gay? Nothing wrong with being gay, with being straight, with being bi, with being anything you are. Enjoy your sexuality for what it is instead of trying to force it to be what you think it's supposed to be.
     
  6. Dipper

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    Yes it's a little gay. Sounds like a sexual desire for the same sex, which is the definition of gay.
     
  7. Evisnam

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    Id say go for it ! you dont know till you try .. Just make sure its with a couple that really takes your fancy . Make it special in a nice place ..
     
  8. slideruler

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    It is gay. Big deal. That was your question; gay or not...not wrong or right... and if that were the case it is neither. Go for it.

    Although, my dad with his corny sense of humor once told me a little ditty using his best french accent...which is poor:

    "If you drive a truck
    it does not make you
    a truck driver.

    But if you suck a cock
    You are a cock sucker!"
     
  9. dosia

    dosia Visitor

    It is not gay, but bi-sexual; and more like bi-curious at this point. And I agree with Shale, its all just labels and you shouldn't let that hold you back or try to be what you think you should be. Its just sex, have fun and enjoy it.
     
  10. Svitlo37

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    "Is it gay for me to want to suck a guy off?"

    lmao just at the fact that you had to ask that. I have no problem with homosexuality, but come on.

    "Am I suicidal if I want to shoot my self in the brain and stop living?"
     
  11. Kalypso

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    As stated many times above, I think you are worrying way too much about the label/labels that would be put on this. If you would enjoy doing this, then give it a try, who gives a shit what other people think of it.
     
  12. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Then by that definition, the majority of the male population is gay
     
  13. dosia

    dosia Visitor

    Well considering he wants a girl to be apart of it..
    that by definition does not make him gay, that makes him bisexual. Or bicurious.
    Gay is strictly for the other sex, with a slight deviation from that possibly.
    Bisexual or bicurious is wanting both genders, especially if you only want certain things.
    Like to give head to a man, when you yourself are a man; but would want a female there
    to do sexual activities with as well. I say your bi man, or bicurious more so.

    I agree with most everyone else tho, its just a label!
    If you would enjoy it, then do it and be damned with everyone else
    and their perceptions of what is right or wrong.
     
  14. MunaJadida

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    Not necessarily. Homosexual means exclusively same sex. Gay can mean any attraction to the same sex, so bisexual is included in that umbrella. I consider myself to be gay even though I'm married to someone of the opposite sex, because I am bisexual.
     
  15. Evisnam

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    What i dont get is why are you trying to categorise your sexual fantasy ? just do it , i hate to coin the phrase but " suck it and see " Bahaha
     
  16. _Dahlia_

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    Catchy.
     
  17. DragonTear

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    gee i thought the definition of gay was happy....


    I really agree with what kalypso has to say. I've sucked a couple cocks in my teens, but that didn't change anything about me. I'm now married to a beautiful woman, have two lovely daughters and never really think about doing it again. Not saying that I wouldn't if it came up either.
    Try not to let what other people MIGHT think IF they found out.
    If you enjoy puffin a peter, then to quote the Flintstones theme "have a gay old time"
     
  18. Josh Woodward

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    I think its more than a little gay. Its a lot gay. Its not gay to have a 3some with 2 guys and a girl. But if the 2 guys strart sucking each others dicks, thats very gay.
     
  19. sexcrazzed1

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    Screw all the labeling...sex is sex. I have been married over 15 years and fantasize about sucking cock a lot and my wife knows and is ok with it. Its just a fantasy and even if I ever did it I wouldnt care what other people thought.
     
  20. Bigpapa69

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    I didn't think Or plan on it but I had a 3 some wife my wife and a really good friend of mine and here I let them fuck and I saw him cum in my wife and I loved it he took my face and made me eat it so I eat it and I sucked my buddy's cock and fuck I loved everything about it! The smooth feeling of him deep in your mouth and my wife loved it. I say go for it fuck what anyone else thinks I love cock every where in me now and in my wife ;) I hope you love it like I do/did
     

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