Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?

Hello, I'm 24 and I'm still a virgin, and honestly cannot see that changing, ever. I'm not confident and I don't really ever go out, never tried to get with a girl and probably never will. I am not massively concerned with the prospect of never having sex, or even kissing a girl, but I am admittedly curious. Here in the UK it's illegal to pay for it no matter where you go, at least as far as I know.

Anyone got any thoughts on this?

 

I would say don't do it. As you said, it's illegal, so you could end up in jail, lose a lot of money, and still not have sex. Prostitutes probably arent the straightest shooters out there and you have a higher risk of getting an STD from one of them rather than a girl you meet in a book store. Try taking small steps and going out every once in a while. Nothings going to happen if you dont try

 

at least try craigslist first..

 

Sure! Start out your new life as a non-virgin with an STD. Sounds brilliant.

 

try for uglier women! or are they all like that in the UK?

 

You might want to make it a little more personal than just going thru the mechanics of it. There's someone for everyone-even the elephant man. You just have to put yourself in numerous places at numerous times and sooner or later--------------

 

I lost my virginity to a prostitute when I was in my prime.

 

U say you dont really care for sex, kissing, etc. Then why are you so curious? Go jackoff or something.

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Im gonna go with dont do it.

 

I do jack off a few times a week, but it's just one of those things that everyone always talks about isn't it? My friends were kinda shocked when they found out a while ago, pretty unusual. The whole intimacy thing just kinda scares me if I'm honest.

But anyway, I imagine if I were to go through it I'd probably go somewhere legal like Holland or Germany. Few friends of mine have gone through with it over there on holiday... one even lost his virginity in the Red Light District when he was drunk.

 

Craigslist mate. Finding a lady you like though, that's much better and will make the sex 10x better..

 

i would. definitely do it where it's legal and controlled though.

 

skazilla, seriously, save yourself from an STD - get one of these:

http://www.pinkcherry.com/sex-toy-brands/fleshlight

 

Look at it this way- he'll have something to remember the occasion by.

 

Sorry if I'm completely wrong, but isn't it pretty much common practice to HAVE to wear a condom anyway? I would regardless... surely you're 99% safe from contracting then?

 

I kinda feel for you. I was in a similar position until I lost my virginity at 24. I really never imagined that I would because I'm just not good at the whole meeting women thing. But anyway, it happened, and I was left heartbroken because as it turned out, she was a liar and had slept with more guys than she'd had hot meals. Now I come from a pretty decent background and back then I would agree with the majority here - don't give yourself to a prostitute. However, society seems to have this tendancy to uphold what are felt to be moral values without actually knowing what it's on about. Fact of the matter is that sex, particularly when had within the realms of intimacy (girlfriend, somebody you like, a friend, etc) can be pretty dangerous for a newbie - I want to just be clear that I'm not judging here, but speaking from experience. Like I said, I came from a decent background but after finding out who this woman really was, I was left wishing that I'd been how every woman had said not to be - a player, a lady-killer, and an intimacy-fearing bad boy. Now, if you have sex with a prostitute, you know the deal from the get-go. You pay her, you have her, you leave. No intimacy, no risk of heartbreak.

Regarding the legal nature of prostitution, I'd just like to point out that it is not illegal to pay a woman for her time. Escort agencies are perfectly legal, much as is what happens between two consenting adults. Something to think about.

I wish I didn't have to say this, but regarding likeliness of picking up an STD from a hooker vs a girl at the library...in my experience, girls put themselves around a LOT more than I'm comfortable with, and they seem to expect guys not to be the same. That whole "fairer sex" thing seems to have completely reversed. As an equalitarian, I think that if a girl can sleep around, then so can a guy. Additionally, prostitutes tend to make a living out of selling themselves - this means making sure you're relatively well-kept, clean and ensuring your clients will come back for more. This means that being clean is of paramount importance. Taking a look at the library girl again, she doesn't make a living from selling herself, and she may well enjoy giving herself up to lots of guys - there's no guarantee she doesn't simply love the feeling of bareback.

Bottom line: Do not let the notion of what is morally "right" guide you. I did and there was no karmic reimbursement for being a gentleman. I know how I felt when I was 24 and hadn't had sex, so if this is something that you need to do, and you need to get out of the way, try an escort agency. If it doesn't bother you that much, then don't worry about it because somebody will probably come along, and with any luck, it will be a better experience than I had. In any case, try not to worry about it, and I wish you the best.

 

Ding. Ding. Ding.

 

Yeah, get the hooker. Just make sure she's smokin hott.

 

My guess is that you'll find a girl the usual way if you don't

You should do as you wish

I imagine a pro would be a pretty good start;
... just do what you will.


Imagine how much kissing you could do with the right girl for an hour

***I can only IMAGINE what I could do with the right girl for an hour***


Either choice could be good

I'd go for the usual road if it were me

 

Firstly prostitution is not illegal in the UK. It's perfectly legal to pay someone for sex. It's just things around it that are illegal, like running a brothel, advertising publically and pimping. That's why we don't have the situation like in Amsterdam, where it's just public on the streets. And why prostitutes frequently advertise as masseurs etc. If you type in "Escort London" in Google you'll find plenty of legit agencies with hot STD-free girls.

Now should you do it?
I vote for no. You're young and there is plenty of prospect of your confidence improving and you meeting and dating quite a few women, getting married etc.

Guy can still dress well, fuck well and be attractive to quite young women till they're about 60. Looking at it that way you've only used up about 6 years of your 42 years of being an eligible bachelor (around 15%). You've still got your whole life ahead of you. Remember as women get older their looks fade. But as men get older, they get more confident, powerful, richer etc, and thus more attractive to women.

Go out join some societies and meet some women. Find an interest you already have and join a real world society where you can meet women that share that interest.

If in 20 years time, you still aren't having any luck, then go to a prostitute. But I guarantee you that won't happen.