Should I Stay Or Should I Go??

Greetings, i feel i have created a problem for my self when there should be nothings wrong. i have a great relationship with an older man(20 years older), we get along great. BUT, i want something different in life. when i first meet him i wanted to settle down get a farm and have a few kids, but know my desires have changed. i want to travel,befor i have to settle down, i feel i have some more growing to do. he doesnt want to do that, hes attached to his things and doesnt want the risk of lossing everything, i have nothing to lose because i have nothing i own. i thought he would wait for me but he won't. hes ready to settle with kids, if its with me or some other woman.
so should i stay or should i go??? what would you do???
thanks for any advice

 

you both want different things, and if he`s willing to just settle with anyone, doesn`t feel the significance of you both - then go

Good luck

 

wow, that's a toughy one...it's obvious that you both will want different things out of life at the moment..perhaps it's best you make your own way and enjoy all the things you'll see and learn from your experiences. he's already done his learning, he's at other stage of his life. It doesnt mean that you cant love each other, cos i'm sure you so, but in this cases it's best to obey your feelings and if u feel you need to stay with him, well do so, but remember you may regret it later.

You're young, you've got so much in front of you...perhaps you should just take your chances and see what's out there.

wish you luck