should I tell the girl or not

If you don't treat people with respect you don't get it back. I guess we just judge what is acceptable different. Just like you are calling someone else a troll on another thread and saying you hope his girlfriend leaves him. How is saying that right?

 

did you read that thread? what he was saying about his girl? that girl deserves more respect than what he was giving her. unless he's just fucking around, being a troll.


you seem a little uptight.
there's a time and a place for everything. he wasn't even gay bashing, he was making light of the situation. how exactly does one make it apparent to such a family, that one has been engaged in homosexual intercourse with their son?

but still. you can't possibly derive from that one post, that he is a lonely and sad individual. if anything, he seems to have a humorous view on a strange situation. whats the problem?

 

A gay person deserves as much respect as a woman does.

Guess you didn't read all of this thread either! There was more then one comment. I see this clown as a troll just like you did the other guy.

You don't make it apparent to a family that you have been engaged in homosexual intercourse with their son. That is up for them to do.

I derive that he is a lonely and sad individual, because not to many people I know anyways are very attracted to people that don't accept people for who and what they are. I don't remember the last time I was at a gathering where someone was like wow I so want to be around the insecure guy over there with the negative additude. It is so hot.

 

who exactly, have you derived as a lonely and sad individual? the person who made the supposed 'gay-bashing' comment, or the OP?
of course he deserves respect, but at this point, OP seems just as much as like a troll as in the other thread. if not trolling on us, then trolling on his life.


either way, people will always bash each other. they shouldn't. i don't. but there's always free speech. and the fact that sometimes things should be accepted for face value, and not for literal meanings. do you get offended every chance you get? what a way to live.

 

and actually, a lot of people are like this. maybe not, fully developed individuals. but that sounds like exactly how teenagers/americans are.

 

Seems to me you are the one getting offened that not everyone agree's with your wisdom! I live my life very well thank-you. I am surrounded by real, honest, positive and respectfull people for a reason.

As for the op being a troll he could very well have been and I never supported what he said either. Does that mean it is alright for someone else to troll him? Two lefts don't make a right after all.

 

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whatevers clever, man. either way, shit happens.

 

if there's a one way street, the next street is usually one way the opposite direction.

alternatively, you could go down the one way street in reverse. that way if a cop shows up you can tell him you were just parallel parking.

 

We hope so in that context. I have to say I've met or seen some pretty bad drivers.

 

You know, watching Jay and enhancer argue on this tread is like two soldiers on the same side bickering like a married couple while attacking their common enemy, or something, lol. xD

As far as I'm concerned, the OP is the only cheap ass on this thread for, number one, ratting out on his ex-boyfriend to his parents and, number two, wanting to rat out on the ex's girlfriend next. RainCheck's posts on this thread were, for the lack of a better word, "ignorable", and thus I never made any issue of them. But the OP, he's the one with the bitterness and vengeance issues in my opinion. Sure, he makes it sound like he's worried his ex only wants to go out with this girl to mask his homosexuality, but I doubt that's the only reason why he's willing to go down so low.

Plus, PhotoDude has brought up a good point; maybe the ex-boyfriend is actually bi rather than all-out gay. Who knows? And in that case, what the fuck's wrong with his meeting a girl now that he's available again? Sorry OP, but it's time you moved on. Leave your ex and his new girl alone.

 

To the op...

You don't get to out someone. Period. Other people's sexual orientation is none of your business, whether they had sex with you or not. A young guy can experiment without you running around telling everyone about it.
If he is really gay, that is for him to come to terms with. You don't get to help, and by "help", I mean "get revenge".

 

Let him go. You are not acting like you care at all about his feelings. You betrayed his trust by telling his family and now you are thinking of betraying him more. You will never win him back so leave him alone. He is probably bi and he probably loves that girl. If he decides he wants to be with a guy again it won't be you because you hurt him. You owe him a big apology. His religion and faith is his to chose and his love life is his to chose. If he does not want to be with you let him go. Right now you are being toxic for him. Do you think by making him an outcast with his family, church and girlfriend you are going to win him back. Wake up young man and move on. Find yourself a new guy but maybe before you do work on your ethics a bit.

 

Yeah, I have some of the best advice for you-
GROW UP.

When you act like that you're showing how immature, selfish and greedy you are. Acting like that I wouldn't even want you as a regular friend.

Friends don't snitch on friends.