should never have gotten my hopes up

so if any of you recall from my last thread i was trying to get with this girl at my school and things were going real good up until thanksgiving break. i txted her on 3 different days none of which i got a response too and sent a final one that said "idk why u wont answer my txts but its whatever" and no response to that either. i let her borrow Scar Tissue and i txted her this morning and asked her to bring it to class tmrw and got a mere "yup" from her. while im kinda down about this and that obviously she wasnt as interested in me as i thought im not too let down by it, shes so gorgeous and obviously out of my league and from the get-go i said i wouldnt get my hopes up but i did and now its like this. *sigh* Bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks

 

aww man, just hang in there tho

 

i hope you're joking about the last sentence.. sorry things didn't work out.. she sounds kind of mean though if she was just ignoring you like that. maybe she's gorgeous but if she doesn't even have the decency to get back to you, don't lose sleep over it. you deserve better.

 

You aren't tupac so I'm sure this attitude gets u real far with the ladies

 

"want nothing, acept any thing" 1 of my mottos for life, that way you are happy with what ever you get, sometimes simplicaty is the key, have a great day and good fortune,

 

was actually Dre that said it

and thanks evrybody. i just dont understand why girls cant just be straight up and not lead you on. i mean ill admit im not the best looking guy by far but like i still really tried i complimented her all the time and told her how beautiful and special she was and was always there when she was torn up over her ex and what not. and while she made it clear that she wasnt looking for anything i still thought she wanted to be friends. idk why she was ignoring me and i dont really care anymore. :banghead:

 

does that hold true for not wanting marijuana and someone giving you crack

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSJxvi767kQ

this version cracks me up

 

actually it was Snoop.. it was just on the dre album

 

hahahah touche joker

 

Regardless, if you aren't a rap supa star that line won't fly....she might realize you want more than that and she's not ready she already told you this....not all chicks want to be complimented on all the time esp. if they are hot b/c they probably hear it all day, also you don't gotta be the best lookin guy just gotta play the game man and if she doesn't want you, find someone else, plenty of ppl out there to get hung up on one that you hadn't even started dating yet......she also might not of been leading you on, but you getting the wrong signals thinking she was, there's another thread about this good luck :cheers2:

 

well she was returning the flirtation which is why i kinda felt lead on. and you have some very valid points there that i definetly appreciate man but. . . . . . .bitches STILL aint shit but hoes and tricks

 

i sympathize with you too dude i found myself in a similar situation recently. it sucks but you gotta move on. hopefully yall can salvage a friendship.

 

I'm a very flirtatious guy, I mean hey if I can get the big girl at mcdonalds to have a better day by smiling and calling her baby, not to mention they hook you up fat sometimes if u do this, but it doesn't mean I want to date her. She just might be a flirty chick.

 

hahahah damn dude ur a funny motherfucker. im just upset over the fact she was ignoring me especially when the last txt i sent her before the idk why ur not responding one was telling her to listen to this song by this amazing band ive been listening too and know shed like and telling her to have a good thanksgiving. idk guys it just doesnt make any sense me. i want nothing more than to txt her some lyrics right now and even ask whats goin on and why she hasnt been talking to me but i have class with her tmrw and wouldnt want it to be mad awkward. but 420 you seem mad insightful on this shit what would be the best peice of advice you (or anyone else who has responded to this thread for that matter) be to me on how to get a girl you want?

 

thats easy bro don't try so hard, chicks aren't into guys they "know" they can have, keep that part a mystery....that and just have general convo's to see if there's any chemistry.

Edit: also not sure what you mean by girls you want, if you mean just hot girls idk cuz she could of been a prude and prudes are hard to get, I usually don't hook up unless there's chemistry there....also sounded like you texted her a bit too much then got mad and texted her you don't know why she's not talking to you. Shoulda just left it at the first text and if she doesn't respond, text her like a week later and see whats up. My advice, not sure what its worth lol

 

thats the thing! there was SO much chemistry. we literally would bug out at things the other said and be like OMG YEAH!. like the list of things we have in common and talk about and agree on are endless. but your right i was making it obvious that i wanted her and she could have me. ive always tried really hard with girls and always told myself this time i wont fuck up im gonna try so hard to make this one work out but there was my problem trying that hard in the first place. thanks a lot man!

 

glad I could help young grass hoppa :cheers2:

 

is she this hot?

 

She probably realized she didn't want something serious with you, so instead of telling you straight forward, she might of thought ignoring you might have been easier...well easy for her and thaaaat makes her come off as a bitch.

If it still bothers you, just ask her straight up and you'll for sure get an answer. If not though, don't worry you'll find another girl who'll appreciate you just as much