Would any of you guys get emotionally involved a girl that you knew was very experienced? A girl that was seriously hot but has slept with alot of guys in her years? Does it put you off knowing that a lot of other guys have really 'broken' her in and done wild shit with her? I read somewhere that 2 out of 3 people cheat or have cheated on their partners at sometime. You could love your partner to bits but temptation can get the better of people. You could be lying next to your partner watching TV together, not knowing that they've had sex with someone else last week. You know, just a quickie that didn't mean anything. Why should your partner tell you? It's only going to ruin your relationship and it was just a one off. No harm done right? It used to bother me a few years back but now I don't really give a shit anymore. If you want a sweet virgin, you've got to go to church
explain to me that you know the difference between experience and sluttiness...then i'll answer. also, experienced doesn't mean cheater.
my first girlfriend had had oral sex with over 30 people before i met her, and it never ever was a problem and never really bothered me at all, and i've never met a person i loved or cared about as much as her, and never found someone who cared so much about me and treated me so well as she did. in fact, it was great having a really experienced girl as my first, cause she was the one to break me out of my shyness, and helped me learn a lot about myself and how to please a woman. she had never had intercourse (willingly) with anyone before me though, had planned to wait till she was 18....one of the few "firsts" she was actually holding out for till she thought it felt -right- anyway, i've still only been with a couple girls, and each where a good bit more experienced than me. i've never called any of them a slut to my recollection, and never considered it a bad thing to have been with a lot of people, so long as i know you're clean before we go to bed. hell, given the chance i'd have quite a few under my belt as well, but most girls i meet that i'm interested in nothing works out with them, and most girls i meet i'm not even interested in (no matter how hot you are, you MUST have a good personality as well) i dont understand why people would think twice about a girl having had many partners in the past while our society praises men for exactly the same thing. if you think it's bad to be a "slut" then as a man you should restrain yourself to two or three partners in your lifetime as well, and live up to whatever stupid standard you want to hold women to. if you think it's cool for a guy to be a "pimp" then you better not care if your chick's been with her share, too. people are people....some people have a lot of sex, some dont. theres no reason to care about it, really. it's just insecurity.
mmm i dont know, my opinion might sound quite biased....personally i wouldnt like to be with someone who's had 100000000 partners before me, only because i would have the impression that person is not very stable in their affections, hence the high number of conquests. however, no-one is to say a woman is a whore because she's got "experience"...its funny, it seems a woman will always be criticed whether she is a frigid or whether she knows her stuff, so how can women negotiate if they are constantly judged by the way they express their sexuality. told you i was biased.
it's just one of those things that you can really only dictate for yourself. to me a 'slut' is someone who fucks you and your best friends (behind your back) and the bartender for a free beer. but to someone else, like nelo, it's a girl who has had more than one lover. to me it's about being dishonest and cheating, to someone else it's purely a number thing.
Observations 1 - Once a slut always a slut 2 - Sluts have baggage issues like the Gobi desert has sand Goes just as much for male as female versions.
no, i wouldn't say so. i'd say she's a dishonest bitch, but unless she's fucking all your friends and the bartender for that free beer, i wouldn't really call her a slut.
