So I asked a Lady for her number, Advice?

ok Guys i was at the pub in a gay bar (last pub open for the night}

I had had a few wiskies, Dancing and haveing a good time while i had my eye's open for a lady,

Than I spotted one, she was very attractive and appeared to be single and into men,

I made eye contact and we exchanged glances for a while until I saw her talking to her friend about me,

now was time to say hello, as i was walking towards her I had a quick dance with another lady just to mix it up abit untill we made eye contact again then I stopped dancing with that lady and said hello to the one that cought my eye.

I was very hard t here it the club but I asked her name then if she liked boys? she liked boys I smiled at that point,

so we were chatting for a bit and haveing a dance than I asked her for her number?

She said she couldn't rember it off the top of her head, I told her to get her phone out she dident, { I think she was playing hard to get }

So I said" ask one of your friends for it", she replied "witch one is my friend?"

I knew from before who she was, so I walked up and said to her friend " Hay there whats your friends number she said she couldnt rember it"

well it turns out that this lady was her sister Got kinda akward for a few min,

I kinda left for a bit with out getting the number haveing a dance and a few more wiskies,

I was at the bar getting another wisky and she must have seen me because she came pushing through the crowd and stod beside me we chatted and exchanged smiles.

When i was ordering my drink I also asked for a pen and a peice of papper, I wrote my number down on it and my name, also I wrote I like your smile. folded it up and proceded to place it in here hand bag, must have been closed, because it wouldnt go it,

she took the paper opened it up and put it some were i'm sure she hang onto it, The whole time from start to finish she could see what I was doing,

Than I kinda left the bar had a bit of a dance and some wisky then went home ,

That's Most of the story ,

So my questions

should I have asked for her number again? , I think she was just playing hard to get,

should have i danced with other ladys through out the night insted of putting all my eggs in one basket?

was that a good tatic to go for when she wouldnt give me her number, just give her mine,

Do you think she will call and how long to you think i will be waiting,


Most time's while I'm at pubs and clubs i have wild nights and get to drunk to rember recolect or evan think about numbers?

I didn't want this one to the the one that got away, Love at first sight, ahhh


Think I still abit wacked, so whats youre thoughts guys any advice?

kindest regards Jono

 

Well I hope you weren that demanding like "Take out your phone then" And "Ask your Friend" If she was playing hard to get well then, being drunk aint the best way to play that game. Maybe next time ask if you could meet up and she could meet the sober you

Anyways, dont be too pushy for the number and if she calls, she calls. Next time you see her ask again, if she says the same thing or close to it then shes not interested.

And here is a good rule to follow.

NEVER WAIT ON A WOMAN
Whether its from cooking to a phone call, when she decides to deliver, the surprise will be worth it

Yes that kind of does sound sexist but I dont mean it in that way*

Goodluck mate!

 

yeah I don't think i'll be seeing her again if she doesnt call,

I rarely go out to the clubs any more,

but when I do i try and control my drinking

and yeah I was kind of demanding her,

I was just over comeing her objections wile smiling,

I think she liked it tho ,

The whole sister bit through me off a bit,

Thank you for the comment,

 

a pub and a bar aren't the same thing?

no. fuck girls that play stupid games.

i thought you said you did dance with other ladies.

seems reasonable.

probably not and until you realize she's probably not going to call, or meet someone else.

putting a question mark at the end of a statement doesn't make it a question?

i didn't realize gay bars were a place you could go to pick up women. i have no advice, this is the opposite of my area of expertise.

 

when its the last place open in the city to get a drink and a dance, sometimes straight lady's go to them, its very rear ,

I was just thinking the whole time,

Stranger things have happened,

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

It's practical advice, can't say it ain't. And, at that late hour, in that condition, two lips are two lips no matter what they are attached to. As for the rest, you are on your own. Good hunting.

 

well I did have a few fella's hitting on me i kind of gave them the flick with out being rude, If im not attracet to someone I dont have the motive to proceed,

So picking up guys wont realy work for me,

 

Gay bar? You sure it was a lady? Sounds like a potential Jerry Springer appearence to me.

 

Well there is always a possibality at these places, but Im betting that is was a lady, Most attractive one in there apart from her sister

 

Write this one up as a learning experiance , she gave you enough hints ," oh i dont my number "etc ...she just wasnt that in to you

 

ok so she wasn't just playing hard to get,

It was just confuseing how after I asked for her number and she said no,

she saw me at the bar about 30min latter and came rushing over,

maby she just wanted a free drink?

 

probably , sometimes we only see and hear what we want to see and hear

Woman says -lets eat out tonight , guy hears -we are having sex later .

Its easy to miss read signs , we men aren't that good at it , we cant take hints

 

Yeah you're right, being drunk kinda clouds my judgment a bit also,

I never thought a bout humping her tho,

I was to court up in the moment,

 

She wanted you to swoon her and buy her drinks.
"Do you like boys, can I have your number" isnt the best pick up line.. its the her and now man. Well the there and then.

 

you mean it never once crossed your mind

 

So you have a problem with your libido.... I see...

 

Get out now Dove! The piss take brigade are gathering for the ritual "let's fuck with this ****" moment!

 

libido maby thats what wasnt going for me,

I dont think i got past the smile or the acent

When i look at a lady, So long as im attracted to her i will say hello

I dont look at them and think to my self I want to hump you

I look and think she look's beuitful and intresting and would like to know more about her,

I'f all i wanted was sex I would just say want to fuck?

for me its the experaince and interaction that I like most,

sex just comes after so why worrie about it at the start?