So my ex has some pics of me in a my undies...

...and is threatening to do something with them... Is it weird that I barely flinched? My best friend told me last night, and she kept asking me if I was okay. And somehow, I really am... They're not that bad: a pic of me in a bikini top and cut offs and a few pics of me in a tank and panties. I've seen much worse on myspace.
I guess he forgot who he was dealing with, lol. "Hippie" is almost code for "barefoot nudist" in many cases.
Seriously, it's more his problem than mine. I was 14 when we were dating (and young and stupid, yeah, I know), which means I was underage, which means it's pretty much illegal for him to even have them, let alone distribute them.
Ah fuck, maybe it's just too early and it will hit me after coffee... :coffee:

I just realized something... I was sexting before it was cool... 2001 muhfuggas

 

Wow that's cooooool. I don't think I've ever sexted. I don't really know what sexting is. I think I might but I don't really care. In regards to the half naked pictures ...... I don't know what to say really. I'm sure some gay blokes somewhere have pictures of me coz some gay blokes are creepy like that - not that I have anything against homosexals. Perhaps many people are not quite sure what you looked like when you were 14????

 

You know how to pick 'em.

 

People who post their ex's pics online are childish, nasty and bitchy. Good that you were not naked lol, so you shouldn't worry about it. People that could do such a thing are worse than trolls.

 

Tiger did you too, huh?

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I kinda thought it might of been Dennis Rodman.

 

Perhaps we'll find out today during his so-called press conference



Hotwater

 

I sure did back in the day.

:smilielol5:

I wish.
Or maybe not, he's probably got something by now. :ack2:

Thing is, the guy's a junkie now, and I got pretty much all of our friends in the break-up, so I don't know who in my social network this is really going to reach. I guess it would be kind of embarrassing if he mailed them to my parents or something, but honestly? I'm not even trying to get a job in my town, and chances are, I'm moving to New England in a year or two, soooo yeah. Add to that the legality issue, and it's just an all around epic fail on his part. I'm more amused than worried. And a little creeped out that it's been almost 10 years since those were taken and over 5 since we broke up and he' still hanging on to them... Can we say obsessed?

 

You should let him know that those pics are illegal and he could be looking at life on the sex offender registry if he does anything with them.

Then say CHECK MATE

 

I'm sure there are many people who would always keep revealing pictures of their exes just as they would unrevealing ones. He'd be a fool to distribute them around and I hate to say it but it sounds like he IS a fool. It's a breach of your privacy and it's possible that there's a law in your country against it. If brought to the attention of the legal system, he could be in big trouble.

 

I sent him an email last night saying basically that I didn't think they were that bad, except that they were kiddie porn and more his problem than mine, lol. I also told him that I am not afraid of him and he can't blackmail me with them- that I am proud of my body and I have nothing to apologize for. Think I covered all of my bases. We'll see if he's dumb enough to do it anyway. He seems like the kind of guy that doesn't have a lot to lose.

 

it's not illegal.

 

Why is that?

I mean illegal or not, I'm still not afraid of him, because I doubt he knows how to actually ruin me, but would you care to elaborate?

 

You were never fully naked were you? If you were at least SOMEWHAT clothed in the pictures then it's not really problem. I mean, turn on mtv and look around, most teenage sluts dress in barely nothing on the regular. Not saying YOU are a slut though. Shitty situation but really is it much of a deal? nah, just shows he wants you....bad, lol plus who knows, you may gain a few fans out of it ;P

 

You consented to have the pictures taken, and since the pictures are his personal property and don’t contain nudity, he has the right of ownership as long as they don’t cross the guidelines of child pornography.


Hotwater

 

there is ALWAYS someone out there able to explain shit better than me, rawr

 

ha, ha,..



hotwater

 

Huh. Somehow I thought that because I was underage, that meant my consent didn't count.
And yeah, I know there is worse out there, which is why I'm not too freaked out about my rep. If I was naked, touching myself and making an O face, that would be one thing, but shirt and undies? Bah. I'm looking into the camera like a deer in headlights, too. Not even like I'm having any fun. I was trying to be sexy and mysterious.
I think the most embarrassing part will be the ugly blue floral/leopard print on the underwear... Ugh, I'm so glad I got rid of those...

 

I say you should post new pictures of yourself, dressed the same way, so we can all decide if it is inappropriate or not.

It's the only way to be sure.

 

XD

I always said that if he tried to embarrass me with them that I would hire a professional to take some sexier boudoir photos and post them myself... just to outdo him.

I might do it still.