someone tell me to pull my head out of my arse!

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While I am not going to tell you to pull your head out of your ass, I think you should tell your girlfriend that..Sorry, but you have a right to get upset or whatever you feel when she told you she kissed someone else..and just because she told you, doesnt mean she should get credit it for it..How and what do you think she would do if the tables were turned..

 

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Well, its a matter of, why did she kiss that other fella, you know. You are the only one that knows whether you can trust her again or what..
I would just wonder why she would kiss someone let alone a friend of yours...
I guess all you can do is talk to her and let her know how you feel, cause the only way things can get solved is if you are honest with one another...

 

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I also say, the first time its a mistake and the second time its a habbit..
I mean, mistakes do happen people are human, and at least she does feel bad and isnt acting like she did no wrong..
I doubt she would ever do that again, shed be a fool too..

 

It's really, really simple. Dump her. She's betrayed your trust. Worse than that, she done so in such a way that it's potentially humiliating. In doing so, she's demonstrated a complete disregard for your feelings. It's not possible to have a credible relationship with someone who'd do such a thing to you. Dump her now, or wait for her to break your heart a few months down the line. Your call.

 

cheers for dropping in Dok...

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The problem isn't the humiliation. The problem is that she was willing to humiliate you. I mean it was your birthday party, for fuck's sake!

I agree. You shouldn't throw it all away. Unfortuantely, she's taken that decision out of your hands and thrown it all away for you. You just haven't caught up with that fact yet.

I'm outta this thread now. You're too emotionally attached to see sense. Which is fine, but it just means I'm wasting my breath. You'll have to learn the hard way.

 

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What age-ism sir, geeze...well I'm gonna give you advice anyway... step one, tell her how concerned you are about this, tell her exactly what you just said, if what you honor the most about your guys' relationship is the trust and honesty you need to be honest with her and tell her that this is bothering you, and trust her to accept that(she can't do anything to change it) but it helps to know what you are feeling. Step two, give it time, like you said it wasn't a huge deal, but that doesn't mean it shouldn't hurt, it will and then you will get over it...good luck...and chill with the descrimination...j/k


okay nevermind, I didn't see the responses...sorry, maybe you had a good reason to ask for ppl over 20...

 

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