Stay at home daddy

Discussion in 'Parenting' started by HippyLandscaper, Feb 2, 2006.

  1. HippyLandscaper

    HippyLandscaper learning a new way

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    Starting monday, I will be a stay at home daddy. I am a little nervous. I know I will do fine, but my wife has been there to help me since Skye was born. My son and I get along great about 99% of the time, but sometimes he gets in these moods where he just wants mommy. He will scream and scream, and being as how I am not mommy, I am unable to cure the problem. Not much of a point to this thread, just getting my nervousness of my chest.
     
  2. colorfulhippie

    colorfulhippie Member

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    Oh, you'll do fine. I've got a guy in my neighborhood that says home with his 2 sets of twins all under 3 years old.
     
  3. silent

    silent Member

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    that doesn't sound bad!
    I like the idea of a stay home daddy
    sometimes daddies don't get to bond much with their kids, so I think it wil be good for you both.
     
  4. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Wow, that's really awesome! Don't worry, from what I've seen of you on these forums, you'll do just great. It will probably be second nature to you!

    {{{Hugs}}}
     
  5. HippyFreek2004

    HippyFreek2004 changed screen name

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    Look into searsparenting.com....Dr. Sears offers some great advice about how to calm baby yourself, different holds that work, and strategies. :D
     
  6. mamaboogie

    mamaboogie anarchist

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    congrats!! I hope you have some real-life support already in place, it can be really hard on stay-at-home parents, even moreso for dads because of society's problems... There are a few SAHD's in my homeschool support group, and I think they are just awesome!
     
  7. Sage-Phoenix

    Sage-Phoenix Imagine

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    That's wonderful :)

    Am sure you guys will get along just fine.
    Have fun, and good luck.
     
  8. *josai*

    *josai* Member

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    i think that's just beautiful!
    good luck to you & your little one.....you know you've got a HUGE support group here if you need it :)
     
  9. stephaniesomewhere

    stephaniesomewhere Member

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    very cool!

    *steals you*
    :p
     
  10. HippyLandscaper

    HippyLandscaper learning a new way

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    Thanks for the support everyone. I am sure I will be fine. It will be better when the weather gets warm. Skye loves to be outside, and there is a nice lake/wooded area not to far from mama's work. I am sure I will be here in a panic a few times though, begging "help, help":p .
     
  11. stephaniesomewhere

    stephaniesomewhere Member

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    now you are just sounding like me and my mates with kids, what a shame you are half a world away and we can't share trips to the park!

    :)
     
  12. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    hippylandscaper, you will be fine.
    How old is Skye?

    and you might find that without mom-smell the babe will be soothed by you.
     
  13. HippyLandscaper

    HippyLandscaper learning a new way

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    Skye is 5 months
     
  14. HADLEYCHICK

    HADLEYCHICK Member

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    I second the Dr. Sears advice, check out his info on calming from a dad's perspective. You will do wonderfully. I'm excited for you.
    Hadley
     
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