I seem to have a problem when stimulating myself, either when I'm masturbating, or having sex. I have done research on this, and have worried whether or not I have over-stimulated myself. The odd thing is, that when I cross my legs, or bring them closer together, it becomes easier for stimulation to occur. This probably happens because of the fact that when I masturbate I am sitting down and it is much more comfortable to cross my legs. And since I had started that habit, it's been nearly impossibly to ejaculate without doing it. I wondered for a while if I was actually gay, or bi. However, I have experimented with anal stimulation(secretly) and either my G spot is elusive as hell or it's just not for me. In other words, it gives me pleasure, to an extent. The feeling of her body wrapping itself around my cock is much more pleasurable, even if it takes me forever to cum. Also, I am not attracted to men at all, and the sight of a dripping pussy gives me an instant hard-on. Still, it takes me forever. This can be great, because I can please my girlfriend until she almost passes out.(I enjoy giving her oral too) But for me, it undoubtedly causes me to lose confidence even if it is very minor. And it is hell for her when giving me head, because I don't have the ability to just sit there and get pleasure from it so it takes forever, and I know she knows what she's doing. I have come to a couple of conclusions: -I have over stimulated myself, meaning too much porn and too much masturbation in the same position. -I'm suffering from some kind of delayed ejaculation. There may be things that I have left out, so please ask as many questions as you like. Based on your perception of what my problem is, what do you think is the best way to get rid of it? Keep in mind that I have considered completely STOPPING masturbation and stimulation other than sex. But I would like to know if there are any other methods.
I'd say just...try it more. Google delayed ejaculation perhaps. Try some new masturbation techniques or something.
I found that lately, When Im home alone and my wife is at work. I get bored and do the old five knuckle shuffle three to eight times. Hell its not even because Im horny just bored. Then when she gets home If I am lucky enough to get some sex, Its just hard as hell to get off. Id say, Probably over stimulated. less jerkin the gerkin pal.
