Stoners and stoner parents! How will you/do you handle your kids?

You find your child's pipe in their room, car, etc.

1. What is your reaction?

2. How do you deal with it?

3. What are future ground rules for bud?

 

Didn't answer my own questions!

1. Damn, that's a lot of resin!

2. We'll have a talk about sharing!

3. No smoking and driving, no new friends over, must maintain average grades or there's a weed brake, and if they have a job, they cannot lose it or get in trouble for their hobby. And above all: share!

 

Ill probably end up walking in on my kid and his friends. I will criticize there weed, make fun of them, take a hit (they'll be frozen in fear, what are they gonna do? ) then walk back out.

Simple rules really. No harder drugs, good grades, no driving stoned, and no getting in trouble. All weed must first be sampled by me to make sure it is safe for use.

 

being an adult is a little more complex than that

what do u think your kids friends parents will say when little jimmy goes home and tells his parents that little stoney's dad was smoking pot with them?

 

if they are 14 or under and so is there friend then fuckin whoop there ass...15+ do what Beleg said...toke with them...i dont think a teenager 15 or older will tell there parents that "hey i was just smoking pot with bob and bobs dad came in a smoked with us."

 

if i were a parent and had a child, and still smoked myself...

1. What is your reaction?

a little shocked, but not to suprised

2. How do you deal with it?

i would ask him to have a talk with me, ask him where he learned to smoke pot, and how long he had been smoking it. Depending on his age would depend on if i completly stop him from smoking or if i allow him to (personally, i dont want my child to begin smoking until he is at least 15...thats how long i decided to wait, thats how long he should )

3. What are future ground rules for bud?

i would let him smoke at home, as long as he had all of his homework is completed and maintain a good gpa. if he begins to smoke to much and his grades are slipping, i will not allow him to smoke at home, and if it gets worse, i would not allow him to smoke at all, and would drug test him on a regular basis until he gets his grades up. I would not pay for his pot, but if he wants to save up his lunch money to buy a sack, then im fine with it. if he is more then welcome to smoke with me if he wants to. I would not allow him to bring friends over to smoke, and i would not want him to tell all his freinds that his father lets him smoke at home.

It really just depends on how much i can trust him when it comes to rules i guess...

 

after hes 16 he can smoke and drink but only if hes on the right track

for a girl.. id have to be more careful but 16 is still the age. id make sure to educate her about the culture so that she didnt fall into a trap and get taken advantage of

 

1. What is your reaction? why are you holding out on me

2. How do you deal with it? i will probly walk in on him/her and some friends
sit down and smoke all their weed ALL OF IT REGARDLESS HOW HIGH WE GET with him/her/them

3. What are future ground rules for bud? good grades, no other drugs AT ALL unless its marijuana or hash. no driving while hihg/or getting high while driving, if i feel some one is sketchty no more chillin or any thing with them. never leave a trail back to the house. only alowed to grow one indoor plant if its a house. theres others but minor thngs

 

a double standard eh bill?

i think it depends how i find out that would determine my reaction. if my son/daughter was to tell me i'd be fine with it. but if they got busted at school or something, completely out of the blue, i'd be pretty damn pissed.

i'd let em smoke in the house, as long as they didn't start screwing up too bad. i'd be concerned with grades, but bad grades can mean other things than smoking too much weed or anything. i'm not sure if i'd smoke with em, it might be pretty awkward. but then again it could really help with bonding, especially since i'd only allow it if they were 15. and bonding in those years really counts.

i wouldn't allow them to smoke in the house with new friends until i'd met them and had a chat with em. kind of screen em haha. and i'd deffinitely share with em, and i'd expect the same from them. but if i ever found out they lied to me about something so they could get bud money, there'd be no more sharing and no more hand outs. if it's money they earned, they can spend it how they like.

 

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if a you had sex at 10, would that mean youd be fine with your kid having sex that age? thats an extreme example but its the same principle. you learn things over your life and you relay this to your children. my mum wouldnt have wanted me to smoke young, nor would she have been hapy (nor was my stepdad happy) to find out how much i drank back then.

 

I have no clue how I'll react, because that's the type of situation you have to experience to know for sure what you would do. You never know how you feel about these things until you actually have children. I know that I will let them smoke after a certain age if they do it responsibly, but I just don't know what that age will be and how I will actually react when I do find out.

 

1. What is your reaction?
-happy he/she hasn't chosen the dark path of alcohol or tobacco.

2. How do you deal with it?
-tell he/she to sit down, have a bong hit with dad, and have a heart to heart.
tell he/she to keep their toking a secret, to toke in moderation, and practically memorize erowids cannabis vault.


3. What are future ground rules for bud?
-stay away from hard stimulants such as meth or E, be a responsible user (read the responsible users oath), keep grades in school up, don't even bring the stuff near school, respect other peoples decisions not to toke, remember priorities (no weed is NOT a number one priority believe it or not), do not deal the stuff, know your body and mind choose the path thats right for you.

 

You gonna control who you're kid hangs out with? Please... don't. They gotta hav some freedom, I was allowed to hang out with whoever i want, one of my best mates, was strictly controlled who his friends were my his dad.

He wasn't allowed to see me at all, and it was like he was being kept on a chain, no freedom at all.

Maybe off topic but hey, I think parents tryin to completely control their kids is wrong (not sayin you would, but stoppin who they are mates with...)

and i wouldn't care if my kid smoked weed, i would have probably grown out of it by then. i they want to smoke it, i would approve, maybe occasionally smoke with them. they could keep it in the house, not have to hide it etc. and even grow it with no objection from me.

 

i might change my mind when i get kids but:

1. oops lil petey has stumbled upon the magic plant

2. i'd have a chat with lil petey. if lil petey was real lil (under 15) lil petey would be warned, i'd take his shit, and if it happened again before 15 petey would be in trouble. after that as long as you keep eh B's or above you can smoke. and if u dont get caught or shot or something dumbass.

3. read above...no smoking til after hw, and please chill it on the weekdays

 

You find your child's pipe in their room, car, etc.

1. What is your reaction?

I would take it, clean it out and make some hash oil and scrape the hash from it for something to smoke. I would leave their weed and/or hash alone.

2. How do you deal with it?

I would let them smoke whereever, but not during school hours.

3. What are future ground rules for bud?

One bowl from every purchase must be smoked with the father.

 

This topic is a very interesting one to discuss, but i don't see replies of old people who have children and that is the one i would really like to read.

 

reaction: Depdends on the kid's personality of course, but probably wouldn't be surprised, and probably wouldn't be angry. Maybe worried though.

How to deal with it: I'd scare the kid shitless. Be sitting at the table one night when he comes home with the pipe on the table and act real pissed, give him some shit, make him sweat a bit... then of course I'd fess up that I'm not really mad, and tell him he should remember that fear, and use it to keep him safe from the cops. Unless he's younger than 16 or 17, in which case I'd tell him he's not allowed to smoke till he's that age (will depend on his maturity, not really his age, but 16-18 seems about right).

Rules: he can smoke in his room so he doesn't have to go to sketchy areas outside where the cops can get him, but i wouldn't want his friends or anyone else knowing I allow it, unless I know those friends well, because I can get in a lot of trouble. Um, I'd also tell him to use in moderation (no daily or every other day smoking, keep it to 1 or 2 times a week tops), grades/job has to be maintained, NO other drugs except maybe shrooms. If I hear about him smoking at school, he's in trouble.

 

I think i wouldnt let my kid smoke at all, haha. Knowing my dependancy on it

 

But yea, if there little kids (like under 14) and you catch them, act all responcable and take everything. There bound to blab it at school the next day if you toke up with them, then you will eventually get in trouble. Information travels fast and gets into the wrong hands quickly. It might not be the exact same information at the end, but the point will get accross.