I recently discovered two things. the PC muscle which after alot of exercising you can clench down and prevent ejaculate coming out, and still getting the orgasm, and being able to carry on etc. Also i discovered if, just before you cum, to push down on..........whatever the hell it is under your balls to prevent anything coming out. I was just wondering if anyone had heard of the second one, and if it's safe or not?
I've done the second one a couple of times. Didn't like it. But ejaculation doesn't necessarily stop you carrying on.
Back when I was in college, the 2nd one was discussed quite a bit. I think someone read it in a magazine back then as a way for guys to have multiple orgasms. The idea was that by closing off the flow of semen through the vas deferens (I believe that is what the actual tube is called) , a man could still orgasm but not ejaculate and would thus be ready to go again sooner. I never did try it but a few guy who did said it was effective but awkward to do at that time during sex.
To stop ejaculation, or at least retard it, press down gently on your balls from the top just before you cum. You will see that your balls have nested up closely to the shaft of your penis when you are fully excited rather than hanging loosely below. By gently pushing them down, you will slow down the ejaculation process. But don't force it.
With lots of practice you can control orgasm with your PC muscle. Once you get it, it is easier to do regularly. Once you start to feel the orgasm clench down on the muscle but don't release it. This is not as easy as it sounds I am told. But it does indeed work. I have seen it in action.
sex therapist use a pressure technique to help with cases of premature ejaculation. do a search online, u'll find it described. no reason it can't be used in any case of ejaculation really. and no your balls don't explode !
I had a buddy that tried squeezing just beneath the head ...and he said it hurt like hell....like all that pressure was going to blow it apart ...
I didn't say it wasn't uncomfortable. having done it to myself before the trick is to recognize that u're starting to come and start the pressure early (discomfort is a lot less too!) but most guys just start too late and it won't stop it then. oh and u're best to squeeze at the base of the penis rather than at the top. one of my ex-gfs was an expert on this one. she'd take me all the way to the precipice then stop and grip me really tight and then start all over again. boy did she have that technique down to pat .
My take is if I'm so horny that I'm premature, I say, "sorry, ma'm - give us a moment and your love life is guarenteed perfect!" As for pressing down on anything, I'll stick to apologising! Kegels, schmegles, I thought we had all night!