Well, I've known this girl for a really long time (childhood) and now we're seniors and recently starting dating. We have really only kissed n stuff. So, I tried going a little further to see how she reacted. As we were kissing, I slid a couple of finger in the waistline of her pants and started moving them down. She grabbed my hand and pulled it out, but kept kissing. Later, on a different day, she repeated what I did, but I didn't pull away or anything. So then I tried again, she still pulled my hand away. It's very strange for this to happen (I've never had a girl do this before). I'm not sure what's wrong, but it's kinda driving me crazy, how come she can but I can't?!
Yeah, I had a girl do exactly the same thing at around the same age, and I was wicked confused. Dude, she just has her own boundaries. It's totally fine and normal and your job is to go along with it. Keep trying - but gently! - and eventually she'll either stop stopping you, or else she'll tell you why she doesn't want you to. In my case, after about a month she specifically asked me to. Now she's a successful children's author. *shrug* some girls are weird.
Have you guys never heard of talking? Rule one: be considerate of the girl's feelings, desires, and limits. If you can't respect her, then go somewhere else. Talk to her and find out who she is and where her head is .....
Concurr'd. But uh. Get her real drunk. Bitches are down for anything when they're drunk. Or passed out, so they don't know what's going on anyway.
She could be on her period. If not just talk about it man! I'd talk about it after I was denied the second time.
I'll third that... You're really going to find, as you go through life, that a lot of couple's related issues are nothing more that breakdown in communication.
Come on... Be nice. I might be an asshole, say some pretty rude shit, or objectify women but being downright mean to people is just wrong.
That's not strange at all! That happened to me when i was your age. She just isn't ready. Relax, don't push it.
