super paranoid- please help

Discussion in 'Birth Control' started by bink90, Mar 12, 2011.

  1. bink90

    bink90 Guest

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    i'm still technically a virgin so anything freaks me out.

    My bf and I were fooling around and he slightly put his tip against my vagina.
    I felt his head to make sure there was no precum and he claims he didn't even get into my vagina so not to worry but I'm kind of freaking out.

    Should I get a Plan B pill to be safe?

    please help :(
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    if it makes you feel better, why not?

    you should probably have sex so you can start to enjoy life without being freaked out by everything.
     
  3. screwwho?

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    I'm just not sure what to say. You are acting SUPER paranoid. Maybe boyfriend could wear a condom every time you fool around, so you will not be worried again, until you are ready for intercourse. Hopefully that will minimize your stress.

    I have a feeling you are not going to change your emotions once you have sex, as well, and will continue stressing needlessly about your sexual activities. :( That's not really going to help you enjoy your sexual experiences and feel emotionally close to your partners. I hope you find a way to destress about sex.

    Wait...sex is a great destresser, LOL. ;) (I'm teasing you.)

    Do what you think is best in this case. Good luck!
     
  4. lively_girl

    lively_girl Member

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    No need to worry.

    It is impossible to become pregnant from the situation you have described. To have any possibility of becoming pregnant, your boyfriend would have to enter you while there would have to be at least precum.

    I recommend that you visit a doctor and ask for contraception pills. It will make the time with your boyfriend much more relaxed and enjoyable, since you won't have to worry about possible pregnancy.

    Most of all - relax and have fun ;-)
     
  5. MagicalTophat

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    You should be fine. Get the pill if you really wanna be sure. But I have to ask, if you two were getting so hot and heavy that his penis was literally touching your vagina, why have you not had sex yet?
     
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