curious about peoples experience with swinging. i'm thinking about meeting other couples, and swapping partners with my boyfriend. we have just recently started dating so I want to give it awhile first, but we agreed we should still be free to sleep with other people because he JUST lost his virginity and obviously i dont want to hold him back. however i'd prefer to know who he is with and that he is using protection, also i think it would be a good experience to do this kinda thing together. not to mention... i think its fuckin HOT! has anyone done this? I've personally had threesomes and orgies quite a bit in the past and they were really hot, but never with a bf.
I tried it, the whole relationship went up in smoke. One of us (me) got more action then him and he was so jealous it went to hell. I really wouldn't reccomend it to any couple.
I don't know. If both partners are 'really' ok with it then yeah why not? But again they have to be 'both' really ok with it. Personally talking I am not emotionally able to share my woman. I am not a selfish person at all, but when it comes to my partner yeah I think I am too selfish, and I cannot emotionally let someone else touch her.
I love threesomes. As I just posted in another thread, threesomes are much easier, emotionally, if it's an established couple plus a new person. A threesome involving more than one ongoing relationship can lead more quickly to feelings of jealousy, feeling left out, and so on. On the other hand, being present with a lover and his or her other lover can be really rewarding. You get to connect with the energy that they've built together. Just make sure you have a safer sex discussion, and be clear on what each of your boundaries are with each other person. Just the other night I had a MFM threesome with my lover and her other lover. I was licking her clit while he was fucking her from behind, sometimes licking his cock too, as it was right there. Very very hot and exciting!
The only thing I've ever done that's more fun than screwing another man's lady behind his back is screwing her with him watching, cheering us on, running the camera, and waiting for his sloppy seconds. I've also had several girlfriends who were willing to swap/share with other guys/couples. If you're an insecure person it won't work for you. If you recognize the value of a free-for-all fun-for-all then there's nothing better!
My wife and I have been married 30 years and have been swinging for at least 26 of them. We love seeing each other fuck other people, not that we always do it it he same room. Sometimes when we have another couple over she will sleep the night with home and I will sleep whit the other woman. We go to sex parties a lot and I have thus seen her fuck a huge number of men over the years. We usually use condoms but at times I have been lucky enough to fuck her after someone has filled her ****. Sloppy seconds with her is awesome..... I have seen her in gangbangs where she is being fucked, has a cock in each hand and one in her mouth. We have a wonderful sex life, I love her immensely. She gets more action than I do and that is great, I am pleased when she gets a thrashing. Swinging may not be for everyone, but it can and does work very well for many couples. I love seeing men use her for sex, I love fucking her when she is exhausted from a gangbang. I call her a slut on here, and elsewhere, I mean it in a loving way. I do not care if people here think she is a slut, I love her and that is all that matters. I love that we go to parties and men use her as an object to fuck. The more men that use her the better.... I get to fuck a lot women via swinging, it is so hot some guy fucking my wife as I fuck his. My wife will often get herself off watching me fuck another woman she loves woman sharing my cock as much as love sharing her **** with others.
